hardest pill i swallowed was realizing i meant nothing to people that meant a lot to me

Heretochat · 46-50, M

Sorry this happened to you
But I guess we all at a certain point made people more important than they should be for us.
It's hard but sooner we'll find out better it is
You'll find better friends and relatives

Holden · 31-35, M

I realized the same thing about a good portion of people who used to be in my life. Needless to say, I cut them out of my life. I had "friends" who acted like they cared so much about me yet never made an effort to spend any time with me, so I would tell the person, usually a girl I was close to and liked as more than friends, I would tell her I'm cutting ties with her and that we're done. I have enough friends, so if a woman I really am into tells me she just wants to be friends, not interested. If you wanna waste my time, I'll cut you out of my life.

SJones48 · 41-45, M

I enjoy chatting with you and I think you’re really nice

vetguy1991 · 51-55, M

Ive said ,i went thrle extra mile for people that wouldn't walk across the street for me

4meAndyou · F

I have learned the importance of ONLY allowing really good and steady people into my life. When you cut out the garbage people, you can concentrate on the ones who are worth your time and your care.