What would you do differently if you could start over?

I wish that I would have spent less time on trying to make others happy or worrying about what others think of me. I wish I spoke up more and advocated for my needs.

I'm trying to do this more in my 30s.

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Thevy29 · 41-45, M

Read the poem 'If' by Rudyard Kipling much earlier in life.

Not eat that dinner in the hospital right before they came to do the MRI... (They didn't know at the time that blue shit they inject you with might cause you to vomit. Not good when your heads strapped down.) And they would have found all the tumours and possible removed the lot instead of leaving a couple...