One of my friends had given me a Tarot Reading.

The more I replayed the cards in my mind, the more it made sense.
One of those cards told me that I will not have a stable love life, because I may not believe in love.
I was over here, thinking of a nice future with me and a husband, or if not a husband, then a bride or a spouse, having at least 10 kids together, and one of the cards told me that my love life would not be stable.
The more I ponder, the more I realize that I would be a shitty lover; I can see myself using a man just for his baby. After giving birth, I wouldn't want shit to do with the father, but I wouldn't be the monster who restricts my future baby daddy from seeing his child. If I start to "feel feelings" for my future baby daddy after birth, I'd rather be friends with benefits with him, as it wouldn't be love. Though, I am far from being narcissistic and sociopathic, since I will value me and my baby's life only.
So, is it possible to be aromantic and lovesick at the same time?

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SatyrService · M

TAROT is just a training aid for deeper intuition skill
it only is as good as the "reader is at reading YOU

Xalvadora · 18-21, F

@SatyrService And as the person I am, I don't fully believe it, despite its accuracy. But I wouldn't try to change what the tarot said about me; it'd be pointless to do so.

SatyrService · M

@XalvadoraThose same cards, in an identical layout,, can be interpreted many ways
looking up a card in a book reduces the effectiveness of the tool
any low grade algorithm could do that for you

no two readers will come up with the same result that this person knows you is a big help

Xalvadora · 18-21, F

@SatyrService I highly think the person who has done my tarot reading doesn't know me very well. I met her at a group I attend to almost every week. I hardly talk about myself, yet I still call her my friend.
So the reading she gave me seems to be very accurate, I was surprised. Because what she read to me, was nothing I have told her beforehand.

SatyrService · M

@Xalvadora much of tarot is based on Kabbalah , a system of understanding human archetypes among other things
the wisdom behind Tarot is profound
for further reading I recommend "The Mystical Kabbalah By Dion Fortune.. an excellent introduction to those understandings

Xalvadora · 18-21, F

@SatyrService No thank you.😊 I wouldn't be interested in learning about Tarot. I like the way they are used, but I'm not interested in learning about them, as it is not in my path.

SatyrService · M

@Xalvadora fair.
though I use a technology, I still like to know it's Nuances
eg: look what cars have done to us.

be well