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Should I pay my narcissist brother back?

I stole from him because my life is not going well, and I am currently struggling so hard to pay my medical/pet bills. I regret it, and it's my first time ever stealing from someone. He stole big money from my parents in the past, borrowed money from random people but never paid anyone back, and he got away with it coz "he's family, and their son". Now he's angry that it happened to him and claims I stole an amount bigger than what I actually stole, which I have proof that he's wrong. For anyone who don't know, everyone in my family are narcissists, and I live with them, and I'm currently being condemned, and forced to pay that amount. I'm the family scapegoat, and it's so unfair that were both treated so differently. Should I or shouldn't?
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Iwantyourhotwife · 22-25
This sucks

I advise you ask for forgiveness and if he does not allow it, return it respectfully

This is sad to hear because he should be helping you if he has money
bittersweethermit · 36-40, F
@Iwantyourhotwife They're all forcing me to apologize and he wants me to so he can feel superior. In all my life, he never apologized once to me during those times he had shamed, and bullied me, and what's worse is my mom allowed it. He's the golden child who can never do wrong. I'll return the money that I took not the amount he's claiming but I'm not going to apologize