Ladies, what is your feeling?

When a guy is talking to you, and then look down at your boobs during the conversation? Not a long time but enough , and then returns his gaze. Im torn on my feeling about it, I mean I know they are THERE but...😶 I guess sometimes I feel flattered, but its not like I chose to have boobs lol! Happened recently.

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melbeacher · 61-69, M

I agree with Ontheroad. Men are naturally attracted to a womens curves. We can not help looking at your boobs, legs, butt. We are attracted to you ! Plus throw in womens clothes that accentuate the female form and of course we will look. We are not trying to be disrespectful or objectifying you. We are MEN and we love boobs !

Berti33 · 41-45, F

@melbeacher A guy appreciating the female charm is cool and exciting... but.. if he isn't smiling but staring... its rather baffling..

melbeacher · 61-69, M

@Berti33 I agree. Staring is not cool.

HootyTheNightOwl

@melbeacher Surely you can be attracted to boobs without having an entire conversation with them, though???

There's not much creepier than a 30 mins - 1hr conversation with a dude who spends that entire time addressing your breasts... and no, it's not the quick glance, glance away tactic - it's the full on burning your clothes off with laser vision tactic.

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HootyTheNightOwl

@melbeacher Oddly enough, not all men have mastered that yet.

Right from puberty, I had problems with an uncle (by marriage) who wouldn't stop staring, no matter how hard I tried to flatten the girls down. I'm not sure what ultimately happened, but we would no longer go there once I reached 13 or so.

I wish that I could say that this is the only negative experience that I've had, too - but, by the time I was 16, I hated my chest.