Ladies, what is your feeling?

Okay, and I'm going to be as honest as I can and as blunt as I feel is necessary to answer the question... all the while trying to be respectful. This is not an answer for all men but from I think a good cross section of us.

Women have boobs. They range in size from nubs to mountains and everywhere in between. Guys like, or should I say adore women and their boobs... no, not just their boobs, but yeah, boobs are an especially nice add on 😜. We, or at least most of us know not to stare, but if a woman has an attractive (to us) figure and the boobs are there (not hidden by clothing so as to virtually disappear) then we will at least look. Sorry, we will, like it or not, we will. Yes, it should not be a tongue hanging out, drooling ogle, but we are going to glance at them and sort of "size them up". You know, evaluate on a scale of 1 to 10 on how they look to us (we each have our own scale, which is a whole other story). Sorry, you asked, and we will, deal with it. If we didn't, we wouldn't be interested and in that case, it doesn't matter anyway. And, if you... how do I say this? Hmmmm... if you have them rather prominently displayed, then the quick glance may not be quite as quick and it may repeat itself. Again, we are guys, deal with it. Generally speaking, if it's a first date, we will be quick and and peek when you aren't looking... at least mostly. If it's a second date, you might notice. If it's a third date, you will know we are looking... we want you to know we are looking and want to see what the reaction is. Ifit isn't a date, but a friend thing only, then if we happen to glance at them, it's a guy thing and we honestly can't help it. Tell us to stop and we can both laugh at us (the guy) being a guy.

If it really bothers you that we look at all... well, it is really doing to be awkward for you and guys in general. Honestly, we aren't always undressing you with our eyes. We are just enjoying what the creator put before us.

I do respect you and women in general... I do, but all said and done, I'm a male of the species. I have issues.

Depending what I’m wearing, I’ll expect it to happen with certain men, so it comes as no surprise. I’m comfortable enough that if I choose to dress sexy, then certain looks won’t bother me. If they’re being inappropriate, that’s a completely different thing.

As long as they aren't gawking it doesn't bother me. Sometimes I look at women's breasts too it's just there It's not a big deal.

I don't mind guys looking at my tits, sometimes I wear outfits that are more revealing than others and show a lot of cleavage, I know guy are gonna look and sometimes that's why I wear revealing clothes.

In my 20s I think I would have felt the guy was a sleaze for staring there. I think since I hit 40, I don’t care. I probably wear clothes to show them off more.. it isn’t always guys who look. Women do it too.

I understand that it could happen subconsciously, as our eyes don't usually stay in the same place when in a conversation with someone. If he was actually looking at my boobs on though, I would simply remind him that "Hey, my face is up here".

I just assume they will have a look. It doesn’t bother me when they do, but a blatant stare is something I’m not fond of.

Even i can't resist looking

I have a hard time being looked at too closely so I rarely wear anything very form fitting. I know eyes wander, mine as much as anyone’s, just in observation and don’t take it personally when I am wearing something that fits better - just makes me itch is all. 🤷‍♀️

If it was a beautiful rose or hydrangea, I’d look too. No offense should be taken unless it’s awkward staring.

Nature creates wonderful things, including boobs.

I dislike it and yes they do it at my age too. Do I drop my gaze and look at their genitalia area? No ffs

Depends who, time & place, and my mood at that moment 🤷🏽‍♀️

it makes me feel uncomfortable :/

Some times it’s very hard not look

when it's my dad, i feel disgusted, when it's someone i'm not attracted to, it's annoying, when it's someone i'm attracted to, it's nice 🙃

It is a question and a struggle for us as well. I always try to be polite, but there is this magical attraction...sometimes it is a battle to keep looking her in the eyes

I agree with Ontheroad. Men are naturally attracted to a womens curves. We can not help looking at your boobs, legs, butt. We are attracted to you ! Plus throw in womens clothes that accentuate the female form and of course we will look. We are not trying to be disrespectful or objectifying you. We are MEN and we love boobs !

Of course it depends on our kind of relationship…. If That man is not my man then I feel uncomfortable and aggravated… I will have less respect for that man…

My eyes are up here, hello!! 😂 that’s a huge turnoff for me!

That’s highly ungentlemanly.
I don’t think women stare at men’s crotch and think like us men as very adequately explained by my friend @Ontheroad. Or do they?

I will look...as its just disrespectful if i dont (thats my cover) ...but i will NEVER stare (in length) or look long enough to make a person feel uncomfortable. :-)

It's funny, but I'll watch other men and it doesn't matter what a woman is wearing, their eyes tend to drift down.

I fold my arms over them - that's usually enough for him to know that I've clocked him and he needs to shift his eyes to my other eyes...

Men will be men.... if that happened to me id be amused more than anything.

It works both ways ,flirtatious womens eyes on stalks and looking up and down its embarrassing

I feel,the same way when a lady talks to me and her eyes drift southerly and back up 😌

Honestly, it depends on how well I know him. If I know he likes me in "that way" and we’re becoming close, it’s okay. But if we don’t know each other well, it’s off-putting.

They anyway do that.

Just ignore 😀

I confess it is very hard for me not to look. It takes so much discipline!

Maybe stare at his weeweedog like this then at his face.. 😆

After a long hard day, it's nice the lay your head on something warm & firm

It always happens especially if you have a cleavage but mine are small