Women, if a guy you havent seen in years wrote you letters, how would you feel

Poll - Total Votes: 5

Creepy and weird

Nice and sweet

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Like maybe some of the letters were romantic, some of them were just platonic but all in all they were essentially to let you know what he's been up to and him wondering what you've been up to for years, let's say 3.
He knows you're not a romantic option and he knows you have someone but he just likes making his feelings known and letting you know stuff regardless.
Would you find it creepy and weird or more nice and sweet?

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lovelywarpedlemon

him showing his feelings would have nothing to do with regard for "my" feelings.... in other words, i'd find it weird because i clearly have no feelings for him & he crossed a boundary telling me his feelings while i am currently in a relationship. out of nowhere he shows up? & does he think i'm going to drop my new life for an old flame? ........

zeframcochrane · 26-30, M

@lovelywarpedlemon Not at all, he just wants you to know the impact you made on his life and how important you'll always be to him.
Also not an old flame.

lovelywarpedlemon

@zeframcochrane but why would he want me to know that? 🤔 what would his intentions be? i don't see how those letters could be interpreted any other way. unless it's more of a mentor type relationship? or just wanna be friends again kinda thing?

idk it's one thing to give someone a call & catch up on things, it's another thing entirely to sit & spend hours writing & thinking about someone & then bombard them with a wall of one-sided text & thoughts. it's not as common these days & it could easily be misunderstood for romantic feelings--not just by her, but her bf/gf?? what would they think if their partner started getting pages of letters from someone from the past?

zeframcochrane · 26-30, M

@lovelywarpedlemon I wish I had something to say to that but it's pretty much ironclad logic. It is definitely more of a mentor type relationship I guess someone I saw as a mother-figure as unfair as it is to try and thrust that relationship on someone.
There is a degree of romanticism to it but it's entirely a precocious crush. I guess I can't really adequately defend.