If we hold the keys to our own succesful why dont we use it, what can make us use it?

not sure the "key to success" concept is a very useful one. it sort of implies that all you need is this one thing, then you use it and boom, success. in reality success take a lot of dedication, focus and lots and lots of hard work and surmounting obstacles, failing and starting again. that sort of stuff.

We are distracted by society and commercialism. In these days some value money more than virtues. You have to go inside yourself and let go. Reflect on your life, let go of judgement and find who you truly want to be. Happiness is created by you, not found else where. Success is made by never giving up. The only way to fail is to stop trying. View failure as learning what not to do when you try again.

Insecurity? You start life before you get to know yourself in most cases

Like all manner of keys, it is because we cannot find where we left them...

Knowing the location and directions of the success lock.