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Older men lusting for high-school girls and older women lusting for high-school guys is morally wrong. Agree or disagree?

The kind of world we are living in today, it is all about one's choice. Sugar Daddy and Sugar Mommy culture is gaining popularity day by day. To some it is nothing but glorified form of pro*ti*ution and to some it is a way to enjoy life. Difference of perspective.

I believe men and women lusting for under-age (i.e. teenagers) partners to satisfy their carnal desires is morally wrong indeed. Nothing against those who find pleasure in this bad deed till the time they are not harming the young individual. Though, being in bed a teen does harm his/her mental growth. Neither the young folks i.e. teens who like being puppets don't care about anything nor the adults who lust for them care about anything.

God help such individuals!🙏

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Fairydust · F

I think more older men seek younger women.

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SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M

@Fairydust

I think more older men seek younger women.

I don't understand what's the fun in that. Why don't such individuals think multiple times before degrading themselves?😔

SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M

@zonavar68

Younger women though don't generally want older men or at least that's my experience through using dating sites.

You may find some in here or you may check the websites for sugar daddies and sugar mommies.

Fairydust · F

@SoLeRiMix no idea, sad world we live in.... fake

SubstantialKick · 36-40, M

Most high schoolers are still children so yeah.

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faithfulhusband · C

@SW-User ur a baby. a baby with fat tiddies, but still a baby.

SW-User

@faithfulhusband I almost popped out a baby last year too..🤔Babies having babies eh

SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M

@SubstantialKick

Most high schoolers are still children so yeah.

Exactly!👍

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

A really big factor is that any older man (I will use myself here an the example since I'm 52) who attempts to go into a relationship with a much younger woman (someone say 30 or younger) will nearly always immediately labeled as a sexual predator, pervert, or any combination of things like that.

But if an older woman does the same thing with a much younger man it's almost accepted, revered, justified and allowed by the Feminazi brigade. This is the power (im)balance problem encapsulated in a simple example. Excepting where the younger man or younger woman is of a non-legal adult age, the factors necessary are mutual consent, and respect.

If an older man and younger woman, or older woman and younger man, both share mutual consent and respect, they are satisfying the conditions for acceptability regardless of their significant age difference.

What if the situation is double-reversed? ie. the younger woman is pursuing the older man and the older man is resistance, or the younger man is pursuing the older woman and the older woman is resistant? Is that not just as wrong if both parties do not mutually consent and give each other respect even though the protagonist here is the young person not the older person?

ExperienceDLT · M

21 years and up I think is ok under 21 its wrong

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ExperienceDLT · M

@zonavar68 well that is understandable my thinking is if you are 21 and old enough to drink/smoke ect then I consider that old enough for them to choose who or what age person they want to have sex with any younger that that I consider underage

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@ExperienceDLT Since there's a lot of talk about consent issues, particularly here in Australia, and people are suggesting things like 'consent apps', etc. I guess the really big thing that's missing is respect. Consent (or lack of it) means nothing without respect.

SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M

@ExperienceDLT

21 years and up I think is ok under 21 its wrong

I am fine with even 18 and above! 18 is when one is considered an adult. Then, it's completely his/her choice but I respect your thought-process.🙂

MrBrownstone · 46-50, M

What 2 adults agree to is between them.My opinion or others opinion matters not.

SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M

@MrBrownstone

What 2 adults agree to is between them.

Two adults is a different thing but an adult and minor is morally wrong. Though, it's their decision but adult definitely is the culprit because he/she is taking advantage of a vulnerable brain. Well, that's my perspective. Opinions vary from person to person.🙂

eli1601 · 70-79, M

Lusting is fine. Acting on that lust is not.

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@eli1601 That is the truth - thoughties are probably ok but naughties aren't. Apparently. But then again it depends on the attitude of the other party too as it's possible the other party might seek or want that kind of attention. By and large though I'd say it's not normally the case. Which comes back to the consent debate - consent without respect is baseless.

SoLeRiMix · 31-35, M

@eli1601

Lusting is fine. Acting on that lust is not.

Absolutely right!👍

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

Is age meant to be a barrier? I definitely feel morally repulsed to even think about woman outside my age range more than about 10 yrs either way in any sort of sexual/erotic/romantic way but maybe that's a big part of the problem with societal norms and issues about attraction and how we are 'conditioned' about all that.

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