Am I hot or not?

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Title is pretty straightforward.
Got curious as to how many are women.
Also I'm not sure if this is worth mentioning, it is for me but I know some women would go "oh it doesn't matter to me", which is totally not what I want to hear. But I'm still a virgin and I turn 24 soon. As to why: Partially cluelessness but more because I just want to wait for someone who cares for me first and she can know I waited for her and would do it again, I've had chances that I realized and passed up on and some I was straight-up clueless but kinda dodged a bullet, so I guess I'm still sentimental like that despite having recovered from a drug addiction in my teens/early 20s. I'm battling a crush I can't have now though.
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TexChik · F

After a shave, a better hair cut, a diet, some gym time, and yeah you could be cute I guess.

zeframcochrane · 26-30, M

@TexChik Ooo, ouch. I'm doing three of those. Been working out for a few weeks now since lockdown restarted again. Lost 15 lbs and gained quite a bit of muscle (I can feel how my arms HAVE in fact changed because pushups and lunges are a lot easier.
The shave? I've been trying to grow a beard for a couple weeks now. I take itTh you're not a fan. Sigh, I like the stubble.
The hair I'll give you since all the hairdressers (and tattoo artists) are closed right now but I actually like my messy mad scientist hair.

TexChik · F

@zeframcochrane work on that core and get that 6 pack, and not the kind you drink!

zeframcochrane · 26-30, M

@TexChik Oooof ouch, and I was proud of how much weight I've lost untiin' this.
I finally actually have abs. Maybe far from a six pack but something.
You fuckin' Texans are brutally honest.
God damn, America.

TexChik · F

@zeframcochrane Dont ask if you dont want the truth! I didnt say it was impossible ! Hahahaha And congrats on your progress thus far 😉

zeframcochrane · 26-30, M

@TexChik Not really interested in a six pack just kind of getting to the point when I sit down and you touch me, there's no fat it's just all me or muscle or whatever. I mean I'm a thin guy but I'm actually almost there. Another 10-15 for a total of 30lbs and I'm there.

TexChik · F

@zeframcochrane well you should be interested in getting one...Chicks dig it!

zeframcochrane · 26-30, M

@TexChik I'm just kinda working on finding my happiness lately since I lost everything in the pandemic and life still hasn't really gotten much better and I feel like a pretty big loser most days lately and a six pack isn't one of the requirements. Certainly being fit and in my utmost physical shape is but six pack isn't one of the requirements right now.
I've added almost 10lbs to my reps and by the end of the month I'd like to increase that to 15. That's improvement to me.
I kind of have Adam Levine or Tom Cruise's bodies at my age (really if you look at these guys, they were actually pretty think at 24 and didn't really bulk out til their 30s and now in their 40s-50s they have to rigorously train or they lose it easy.

I'm insecure I admit. I was talking with my close friend recently and she's often someone I got to with my problems 'cause she's one of those people with all the answers for everything all the time and like the only person I feel safe being vulnerable around which inevitably means she gets to hear all about my recurring insecurities about still being a virgin at 24 and I wondered how I got to this point in my life. Aside not wanting ONS and just wanting to wait for someone who cares about me. I have landed on logically being ugly and she told me that's far from the case and my personality detracts.
Not sure which explanation I find more depressing and hope is more true.