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As a confident, chill, artistic, and smart man, I don't think I'm the relationship-material kinda person. I can get along with women just fine, but the way I look... relationships may be impossible.

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RemovedUsername634280 · 41-45, F

It took a lot of work to get me to this point but now im here im gonna have to say im pretty dam perfect for me.

Mamapolo2016 · F

You are young. That's not a bad thing. Relationships - good ones - are not based on how you look. They are founded on how you wear how you look and how you are under the surface.

Success in relationships also starts with how you see others. If you're a guy who'd rather end up alone if he can't have the girl everybody else wants, then maybe not. That's your choice, not your doom.

xSiFiGamer2016x · 26-30, M

@Mamapolo2016 So, what would happen if I'm old and STILL feel this way?

Mamapolo2016 · F

@xSiFiGamer2016x Hopefully long before then you will have learned better. Handsome is as handsome does and you are a far cry from ugly. You can't describe yourself as confident if you feel it is the way you look standing between you and true love. That might block the way to a pickup in a bar and it might block you from someone who only sees gorgeous or rich. Who wants them anyway?

Relationships are not a contest you win. They are a structure you build, and it starts with you.

SunKiss3d · 31-35, F

Lately I've been feeling pretty worthless. Check with me again in a few weeks

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xSiFiGamer2016x · 26-30, M

@SunKiss3d Why?

SunKiss3d · 31-35, F

@SW-User

I'm listening. Thank you for the much needed encouragement

SW-User

@SunKiss3d You're welcome sweetheart. Hang in there!

MrSmooTh · 31-35, M

I'm the chillest person alive. When I enter a room, time slows down.

SW-User

I think I'm friendly and easy-to-talk-to, but I'm also stubborn and shy and not all that manly. I've been in a couple relationships before, but I was younger and they were not so "serious". I'm confident about certain aspects of myself and much more unsure about others. I don't know exactly what others will see in me.

MellyMel22 · F

The way you look?

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smiler2012 · 61-69

@xSiFiGamer2016x agree we all know a perfect description that fits

xSiFiGamer2016x · 26-30, M

@smiler2012 Ha!

MellyMel22 · F

@xSiFiGamer2016x I don’t see that being a prob for you.

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valobasa4ever · F

Relationship is okay with me but i'm not up for problems .

Shrimpyandiknowit

I think I am cool, funny, athletic and way mature for my age but have to hide that part

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GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

I dont have sex or date. Not because i cant. Iv dated a few girls in my time, one for 6 years. I just dont need that right now. Might have a family one day, might not. Doesnt matter. Im dealing with me right now and especially not what anyone else thinks about it.

SW-User

but the way I look

What is that supposed to mean?

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xSiFiGamer2016x · 26-30, M

@SW-User Well, shit. Lol fine, I'll agree with you.

SW-User

@xSiFiGamer2016x good boi .. *pats face*

xSiFiGamer2016x · 26-30, M

@SW-User *holds both of your hands*

I'll be 22 soon, so...

DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F

I'm a failure-coated failure dipped in failure sauce.

xSiFiGamer2016x · 26-30, M

@DearAmbellina2113 Odd way to describe yourself, but I know how you feel. Sorta.

Nanori · F

You're youuuung, life has been kind to youuuu

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Nanori · F

@xSiFiGamer2016x you'll see when you grow older

xSiFiGamer2016x · 26-30, M

@Nanori That's IF I get older. Never know what will happen.

Nanori · F

@xSiFiGamer2016x

summersong · F

I don’t even know anymore. Some days I feel like I should have my shit together more than I do, other days I’m content to just put in the work to get myself to a better place.

Justenjoyit · 61-69, M

I am just me, I dont really think
about myself much other than I try to be the best me every day.

SW-User

@Justenjoyit You rock

Justenjoyit · 61-69, M

@SW-User thanks you too

SW-User

@Justenjoyit Thank you

SW-User

I'm a'ight.
I'm friendly, intelligent, charismatic, and not the ugliest girl in the room.

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SW-User

@xSiFiGamer2016x People always change. I'm 55..I still look young, however, it takes work, and constantly changing what I do, to find what works for me. You'll be okay, because you have the heart of a Lion. Hang in there.

MsAnnThropy

@SW-User You’re more than aight.

SW-User

@MsAnnThropy Awwww! Thank you

HijabaDabbaDoo · F

I think I think a lot. It's a blessing and a curse. I wear my heart on my sleeve, again a blessing and a curse. What may be foolish to some is thoughtful to others. I myself see it as giving. Even when too much is taken, I know that I live with intent. Moving out of habit to intent is when I can get stuck and have been stuck recently.
All in all, I'm pretty chill, goofy, stubborn, curious and constantly learning.

SW-User

Wonderful I am.

Hahaha

Seriously talking, very introverted, depressive thoughtful person.

SW-User

Meh..

SW-User

@SW-User

FeetAreFantastic · 41-45, M

I'm socially awkward and boring, but I like myself and I try to be good person.

SW-User

I like a lot about myself but I do wish I wasn't so damn lazy.

xSiFiGamer2016x · 26-30, M

@SW-User I wish for that too.

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