Do you think its weird for a best friend of 13 years to do this? I asked my friend of 13 years...

MelanieUK · 22-25, F

but it might of been her Daughter who picked the guests, not your friend

SW-User

Dick move on her part. Take someone else to your costume thing. She'll get it together and apologise or you'll be better off without her.

rckt148 · 61-69, M

When I have friends do things like that I confront them
ask if I did something wrong
2 wrongs don't make a right
If its a friendship I valued I would fix it
If not consider you not being invited as a sign ,you have drifted apart
That is pretty shady ,but maybe she invited someone you don't like
I have stayed away from family events so that my ex could go
people knew it hurt me to much to see her ,so if it was at a park or something they knew I wouldn't attend anyway ,they invited her
maybe its something like that ,,this time someone you don't feel comfortable around was invited for a change instead of you
But were it me ,I would ask and not just assume
13 yrs is a long time to throw away over a party for kids

Gusman · 61-69, M

Ask her if she is still going with you to the event, if she says no, then maybe she no longer wants to remain friends.
People will do what they do.
It is out of anyone else's control.
Go have yourself some fun and keep living your life.
But at least ask her.

Fernie · F

Your post implies that the birthday incident was the only time she treated you that way. No matter...you need to do the mature thing and ask her what the issue is instead of that ghost thing which is a bit cowardly