Do you think its weird for a best friend of 13 years to do this?

I asked my friend of 13 years if she was going to have a birthday party for her daughter. She didn't even answer me when I asked.
I found out yesterday on facebook from one of her friends saying "thanks for inviting me I had so much fun and lots of laughs over pizza."

It was almost like she was trying to hide it because she didn't even post photos on her facebook.

I didn't do anything wrong to her at all. But she's treating me like I am not even really her friend.

My plan is to go ghost her after December because we had a plan to go somewhere and I bought a costume for it! So I'm going. Is that a little childish of me? Maybe. But I'm done with being treated like that.

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rckt148 · 61-69, M

When I have friends do things like that I confront them
ask if I did something wrong
2 wrongs don't make a right
If its a friendship I valued I would fix it
If not consider you not being invited as a sign ,you have drifted apart
That is pretty shady ,but maybe she invited someone you don't like
I have stayed away from family events so that my ex could go
people knew it hurt me to much to see her ,so if it was at a park or something they knew I wouldn't attend anyway ,they invited her
maybe its something like that ,,this time someone you don't feel comfortable around was invited for a change instead of you
But were it me ,I would ask and not just assume
13 yrs is a long time to throw away over a party for kids

Iamnotacat · 26-30, F

@rckt148 her whole family likes me. She talks bad about most of her friends. I for some reason assume that she dosent do it to me because I have no dirt for her to talk about. So maybe I'm just guessing she's been making up lies about me to her other friends and dosent want to seem fake around them. But it's just a guess.

Iamnotacat · 26-30, F

@rckt148 and it's not the fact that it was a kids part. It's the fact that I've been her friend for 13 years. She deliberately didn't tell me about the party when I asked. And then chose not to invite me.

rckt148 · 61-69, M

@Iamnotacat I get it
My ex and I break up and I go to my best friends and there she sits with my baby brother ,,hand n hand
I was blown away she was cheating on me with my brother ,and they went to my Best Friends home ,,she knew he was the only one I would go around
So I get how things like that hurt ,,
I lost all 3 of the people I called best friends that night

Iamnotacat · 26-30, F

@rckt148 sorry to hear that.