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Do you feel depressed?!!

Sometimes I feel like I am living for nothing.That I have no goal in my life and it's all useless!!

Do you feel the same way?!!
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Gusman · 61-69, M
Sure. Without something to strive for, something to look forward to, then there is no meaning to life.
Sitting around all day doing nothing would be very depressing. Which is why everyone needs some kind of goal.
Even if that may be volunteering. Helping others.
Makes one feel good. Something to look forward to.
Behnamhb1999m · 22-25, M
@Gusman Do you often feel this way?
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Gusman · 61-69, M
@Behnamhb1999m I used to.
Then I decided to take control.
Started doing the things that make me happy. Namely going camping/fishing/hiking in the mountains.
Doing hobbies, Jigsaw Puzzles, crosswords. mosaics, painting. Going to live sporting events.
Life does not come to us. We have to put in effort to get happiness and contentment.
Behnamhb1999m · 22-25, M
@Gusman I always care about how people think about it!! This is one of the reason which has made me feel depressed. I don't know how to get rid of it!!
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Behnamhb1999m · 22-25, M
@remindjeff You are right.But as long as you have found the right person who can really make you feel happy.
Gusman · 61-69, M
@Behnamhb1999m It can be difficult to overcome worrying about what others think about us.
I too went for years trying to live up to other peoples standards. Always feeling inadequate.
For what? So they can feel smug? So they can look down on me?
Eventually I said, no more. My life, I will do as I please. If you don't like it, stiff bickies.
No one will control how I live my life.
No one has the right to judge anyone else.
Learn to love yourself. Learn to believe yourself.
Too much time is spent worrying about what others think of us. To our detriment.
I made a post about this topic a while back, I will try and find it for your perusal.
Behnamhb1999m · 22-25, M
@Gusman Thank you very much. I do really need it!! I just want to put this away and I will read anything to do that!!
Gusman · 61-69, M
@Behnamhb1999m I am not sure if this is the one I was thinking of but still very pertinent.
https://similarworlds.com/24-Life/1749233-Are-you-one-of-the-Sheep.
I will look for the other one.
Behnamhb1999m · 22-25, M
Thank you 🌷

I'll read it.

Also waiting for the other one!!
Gusman · 61-69, M
@Behnamhb1999m I had a look and maybe the first one was the one I was thinking of.
This one is along the same lines.
The gist of them being, stop worrying about what other people may.
Live your life your way.
You and me and everyone else has that right.
https://similarworlds.com/24-Life/1933685-How-does-a-person-live-alone-and-not-get-lonely
Too much time is wasted, too many opportunities lost because of being held back by the belief that what other think of us, matters.
What matters is our own self worth and happiness.
Think about this and make decisions based on what you want to achieve.
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