How do you deal with inconsistent people?

Specifically making plans and then completely ignoring me the whole day I was supposed to see them. I really struggle to deal with being told one thing and then another thing happening without anyone saying. How can I stop myself from feeling angry about it? I hate this feeling

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Coralmist · 41-45, F

I had a friend for 25 years, good friend too.. I thought. Two years ago we had plans two times, and both times didn't even LET ME KNOW she got busy🙄 and just wasn't even coming. Like she could barely care.. at that point I stopped asking to do lunch/hang out. It made me feel so low what she did, and she never contacted me again either ... Similar to you, just only be around those who DO care how you feel or respect you.

AndrewtheAlu · M

@Coralmist that sounds really annoying too. And thank you!