@VioletSea I can't imagine why you think you are undateable? Trust me, a young woman, with a degree and a good job, is VERY dateable.

@Pherick I'm a uni student and I'm weird. Pretty, health, not too awkward, but introverted and my mund thinks too much.

The only men I seem to attract are men that I am not attracted to so I must be doing something wrong.

@VioletSea I obviously don't know you, but trust me, an introverted "weird" girl has alot to offer guys. Wait until you can get out of university and into the real world.

You will meet all kinds of new people, a university can be very homogenous.

@VioletSea oh! thats pretty manipulative of him, then. But then, being a single mother is a really, really tough gig. If you can manage it, hold off til you have someone who will stick around, at least.

@firefall I think I am going crazy because the man I am recently involved with is your age! I told him I need emergency birth control and he said 'later, if the universe says so it's so'. He was very drunk saying that but I think I'm not being smart, getting myself near that situation with a willing man it seems.

@VioletSea I'd say you're right. It's perfectly natural to be a bit crazy, because your hormones will still be quite out of the normal order, after your termination, but someone my age almost certainly wont stick around (lets face it, he's going to be dead/demented by the time any kid grows up, at that point).

I'd really urge you to get birth control of some sort, preferably one where you dont have to remember daily at this point (your subconscious could easily sabotage you if it relies on remembering). You've got a lot of time to choose to have a child, ahead of you.