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ElleAlexandra · 31-35, F
Well how about when a pornstar dates a fellow pornstar
Yoroshii · F
@ElleAlexandra I'd like to watch pls
rhouse · 56-60, M
I have cheated twice and yes I think there is a legit reason. I am not saying it is acceptable but there may be a legit reason.
In both cases, I was geographically separated from my wife and we were having a very difficult time communicating. We would talk on the phone but every time I talked to her she was distracted by life (kids, work, in-laws, etc) I felt I was just an interference in her life.
I found a "friend" who turned into more than a friend.
That is the biggest mistake of my life. What my wife needed was for me to be part of her boring life (kids, work, in-laws, etc.) and what I needed was to close the distance so I could.
Nothing better has happened in my life than my wife forgiving me.
In both cases, I was geographically separated from my wife and we were having a very difficult time communicating. We would talk on the phone but every time I talked to her she was distracted by life (kids, work, in-laws, etc) I felt I was just an interference in her life.
I found a "friend" who turned into more than a friend.
That is the biggest mistake of my life. What my wife needed was for me to be part of her boring life (kids, work, in-laws, etc.) and what I needed was to close the distance so I could.
Nothing better has happened in my life than my wife forgiving me.
rhouse · 56-60, M
I want to say no but honestly I have to admit that if the same situation presented itself, I would want to be with the girl who was interested in me rather than in boring life.
I promise I will try to remember that my wife is why I exist but it would be difficult. God give me the strength.
BTW - We have an open relationship now so if I tell her about my desires she s more willing to accept them but I still have to be part of her boring life. (When I say boring I am talking about the life we both own.)
I hope any of this makes sense. I am not saying that I regret our choices. I am only saying that it is hard to choose between boring (chosen) and exciting (different) life.
I promise I will try to remember that my wife is why I exist but it would be difficult. God give me the strength.
BTW - We have an open relationship now so if I tell her about my desires she s more willing to accept them but I still have to be part of her boring life. (When I say boring I am talking about the life we both own.)
I hope any of this makes sense. I am not saying that I regret our choices. I am only saying that it is hard to choose between boring (chosen) and exciting (different) life.
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rhouse · 56-60, M
Totally agree. You will have failures. I can tell by your tone.
If you read this thread, you will see that I have accepted that I was guilty and know that the only thing that kept my marriage alive was my wife's ability to forgive me. I am so glad I was married to her and not you. You just sound bitter. I hope that works for you.
If you read this thread, you will see that I have accepted that I was guilty and know that the only thing that kept my marriage alive was my wife's ability to forgive me. I am so glad I was married to her and not you. You just sound bitter. I hope that works for you.
Miram · 31-35, F
People who experience guilt don't wish that they left their wives to be with the person they cheated with, they don't go around telling others that it was their fault, they empathise with their victim. They don't say the victim is to blame and the victim has and gives a boring life.
Take your judgemental attitude and self centeredness and shove them up your behind. You are old and unwise.
Take your judgemental attitude and self centeredness and shove them up your behind. You are old and unwise.
4meAndyou · F
Yes, I have been "cheated on" twice, divorced twice for their cheating. Some people are so devoid of humanity and conscience they tell one person that they love them, go out and tell another person the same thing, and don't consider for one moment how horribly hurt both "loved ones" will be when they find out....and they always do.
4meAndyou · F
@Yoroshii When I think of the 1st one, I feel ill. He was a liar, a pervert and a predator. He was the photographer at my high school. I don't forgive him. If he had not been out predating young teenage girls at my high school my life would have been very different. The second one was just a jerk. I forgive him...as long as I don't ever have to see him.
btchstfu · F
No excuse tbh but yea i cheated and I hate myself for that
xRedx · M
I wouldn't understand. I'm too traditional to ever do that.
It's called getting laid and yes it's legit
GenerationX · 41-45, M
Being horny is 100% legit.
SW-User
No. And yes I have
SW-User
Both
Yoroshii · F
@SW-User why?
SW-User
@Yoroshii the time and attention I wasn't getting at home. It didn't take much... a man to call me beautiful and make me feel good about myself. Always being second to work other women the tv...etc.
english · 56-60, M
revenge ?
Tminus6453 · M
Never