Maybe definition of loved is important here. Depending on what the "horrible something" was it may not even make sense to love them as in "feeling" love. However, I believe that the best kind of love is an action. We can act toward someone in love by forgiving, holding them accountable, seeing the best in them, etc. That doesn't mean allowing them to remain in control or overlooking what they "did". As I say this, I struggle to forgive my father and on the grand scale, his deeds were far from horrible. However, because it's not easy, doesn't mean that we should give up on doing the right thing.
Virescent · 26-30, F
@trackman11 I was not expecting such a thoughtful response on a post months old. I agree with everything you said.
trackman11 · 61-69, M
CopperCicada · M
wunderluv · 51-55, M
@Virescent hate of a person is never a good and to love all people is what we are called to do .. I have struggled with this myself and I try to my utmost to love person but not their sins which is entirely appropriate. Where I struggle greatly is in loving a person who wilfully continues in hurting people and doing wrong things, especially serious wrongs and with no remorse and when I they aren't likely to ever have remorse. Sadly yes, I've met such people. I'm very grateful that I've not met but handful in my life so who I concluded are quite possibly given over to actual evil .. try first & always to love ALL people is the rule and be careful to use discernment with people
Introvertish20 · 26-30, F
getmeouttahere · 36-40, F
You can try but some people it's impossible.
Coyotedave611 · M
TheProphet · M
No I don't.
bijouxbroussard · F