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Have you ever met someone who for no reason just didn’t like you?

Yep. I later gave them plenty of reasons. 😂
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
Yes, that happens to me sometimes. It seems people either like me a lot or they don't for some reason. It's strange.
mindstruggle · 31-35, F
Yes. I’m not everyone’s cup of tea and that’s okay.
@mindstruggle I like honey ginger
SW-User
There’s always a reason. Could be because they were intimidated or inferior to me. They hate me although I didn’t do anything to them. It’s pathetic.
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
@SW-User It really is. I've overheard people talking about me a few times. Someone would ask them why they didn't like me. They would say "I don't know. There's just something about him." Ironically, I have had a few people tell me I was the best friend they ever had. Go figure.
SW-User
@Nitedoc yeah, I get it. It’s good to know what people are like before judging them. If anything, it’s their loss.
Nitedoc · 51-55, M
@SW-User I know it shouldn't bother me but it does. I'll probably never know the reason. Oh well, f*ck em' and feed em' fish heads!
SW-User
Yes. And I have met people that I, for no reason, didn't like.
Sometimes people rub each other the wrong way.

This has been well expressed in Latin by Martial and in English by Thomas Brown, and there is a whole story to this that I didn't know till just now from Wikipedia:

When Brown was a student at Christ Church, Oxford, he was caught doing mischief. The college dean, John Fell (1625–1686) had expelled Brown but offered to take him back if he passed a test. If Brown could make an extempore translation of the thirty-second epigram of Martial, his expulsion would be cancelled. The epigram in Latin is as follows:

Non amo te, Sabidi, nec possum dicere quare.
Hoc tantum possum dicere: non amo te,

a literal translation of which is "I do not like you, Sabidius, nor can I say why. This much I can say: I do not like you." Brown successfully met the challenge with his impromptu version, which soon became well known:

I do not like thee, Doctor Fell,
The reason why – I cannot tell;
But this I know, and know full well,
I do not like thee, Doctor Fell.

The story is that Dr. Fell stayed Brown's dismissal.
livingoutsidethebox · 36-40, M
thank you for sharing @SW-User
Umile · 41-45, F
All the time.

It comes with the territory.

People are just built and raised differently.

Something we all have to deal with.

I will say though, that the energy that you give off, you will receive back.

On the same coin though, we shouldn't judge a person just because of a first impression.
SatanBurger · 36-40, FVIP
Yes! Literally lol. I dunno those are my favorite people, you can take the piss out of them then.
SubstantialKick · 36-40, M
Yep, but unless they go out of their way to show it, I don't pay attention to it or let it bother me.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
Yes and I'm sure they have their reasons. We can't click with everyone.
SW-User
I want to make damn sure I give that person who doesn't like me a reason
every single day everyone does and usually not knowing it
darkmere1983 · 46-50, M
quite a few people, but i no longer care.
Many times because of my skin tone
Iwillwait · M
Yes, and I presume I dodged a bullet.
HumanEarth · 56-60, F
2ndtimeguy · 61-69, M
Yes in sales for many years had guys tell me to leave not to waste their time and not to come back they would never buy from me
Wallflow3r · F
Yep usually people that don’t even know me. 🤔
SW-User
Geez plenty. I'm not the greatest in person lately.
NerdySoph · 26-30, F
yeh has happened .. they can 🤌
justcallmenameless1 · 36-40, F
Yeah but so what
i have, but we are just mirrors. so if they don’t like me, they just don’t like something about themselves..
TexChik · F
In school , yes.
Fertilization · 36-40, F
Lot of times
Oh, yes. But assuming I’ve done nothing to warrant it, I rarely allow that to be my problem. 😒
sciguy18 · M
@bijouxbroussard Who doesn’t like you Bijoux?
@sciguy18 Meh, a few folks here and there.
DDonde · 31-35, M
Musicman · 61-69, MVIP
Yes I have. ☹️

 
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