I got hurt feelings

Which leads me back to being here. I'm trying to just cope with it. Just pouring salve on my cut for a couple of days. Someone said "welcome to the asylum" and those words alone comforted me

I am dieting but struggling (obviously; hence the offer to pay a personal trainer) I've just started the gym

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LadyGrace

I'm glad you're back! We're here to support you all the way. What a great start you have! I've been doing the same. You'll get there. It's worth the effort to feel so much better and not be lugging around all that weight. You're doing great! Keep up the good work. Anything worthwhile takes time and I'm so glad I'm sticking with my diet. You got this!

MindfulOne · 56-60, FNew

@LadyGrace thank you. I excercised for 20 this morning and it helps soften the blow those words made to my relationship-ego yesterday. But it his way of saying I have to work harder and faster...

WillaKissing · 56-60, M

Bless you and best of luck with the new trainer.

I struggle with the diet thing too, and honestly, I wished they would not show commercials on TV of foods, or when watching and movie or sitcom and they sit down to a delicious looking dinner it attacks our minds making us hungry. It is like the sex scenes too, I have no love/lover, and I do not want to see actors acting out sex you know (They all have sculpted bodies, outfits, and hair and make us feel terrible). LOL

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

I am sure your husband has his own flaws.
I think your partner should encourage you and not discourage you.
And maybe he is- I don't know him of course.

V00doo

My husband doesnt tell me Im fat. He just points out how easy it is for him to lose weight. They have no clue. Do it for you. For your health.

BridgeOvertroubledWaters · 61-69, M

welcome ! I hope you enjoy your stay :)

MindfulOne · 56-60, FNew

@BridgeOvertroubledWaters thank you

SomeMichGuy · M

Keep with it.

RisingMorningStar7 · 36-40, M

Whats wrong with you?

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RisingMorningStar7 · 36-40, M

@MindfulOne its all in the diet

MindfulOne · 56-60, FNew

@RisingMorningStar7 yes.

RisingMorningStar7 · 36-40, M

@MindfulOne eat salads with protein, eat yogurt with berries, eat slow. It will your tummy time to contract and not crave heavy amounts of food, stay busy around the house.

whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M

Just remember. "Nil Bastardo Carborundum"..😷

MindfulOne · 56-60, FNew

@whowasthatmaskedman carborundum?

whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M

@MindfulOne (Joke translation) " Dont let the B@$t@rds wear you down" (Carborundum is an old brand of sandpaper)😷

MindfulOne · 56-60, FNew

@whowasthatmaskedman thank you I appreciate your encouragement.

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