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OKWTF2 · 51-55, M
Closure is surprisingly overrated. And, to often, underwhelming otherwise...

i was expecting rude and troll answers but here you are guys making me feel better 😩🙏🏼 thank you for all the responses I appreciate it 🥺🥺🥺❤️
calicuz · 51-55, M
You actually don't need closure. Just move on as best you can and it all will fade eventually.
Closure is about you being satisfied in a break up, in the way you want to.

That doesn’t work most times. You’ll have to accept the breakage as the sign of departure, and jump on the train of moving forward.

It doesn’t satisfy, but a need for satisfaction could have you wasting your precious time in this short life. You’ll want your minutes and hours back.

Just let go.

Create your Dewmsday and eff the past.
SW-User
You can move on without it
It's possible
Zaphod42 · 46-50, M
Closure is great if you can get it, but often times you can’t and you just have to be ok with not having the “why” of it answered and move on with life.
kentex35 · 100+, M
I think you have to realize that sucks and keep on keeping on that's about what's gonna happen anyway. Peace be with you.
You are right…. But even for your own sake you have to find a way….

Usually we fake it until we make it…
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
Slowly. It depends if someone died or you got your feelings hurt.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
Unfortunately life isn't fair and we don't always get the closure we want and need.

Try to change your mindset to being ok letting go of your attachment so new energy can flow into your life. You can still hold love for them in your apartness, it just has to be attachment and expectation free.
Just try. It will get easier.
DragonFruit · 61-69, M
You may or may not get closure, but life goes on and we must go on with life.
Closure is a nice thing to have, but it isn't essential...and sometimes it doesn't come at all.
Freeranger · M
Closure is overrated. I've never needed a door knob to bury itself in my arse. I was already moving forward when the door swung.
MrSmooTh · 31-35, M
You just do. Your time is too valuable and your self worth is way too high to be worrying about silly things like that.
Create the closure by changing the way you think about the relationship and the person.
SarithBorn · 18-21, M
It's gonna take longer that's all, but it should happen at some point. 😇
Talk to your father, he misses you
wackidywack · 22-25
you broke up ?
@wackidywack ok free nako rn to make chika 😆😂
wackidywack · 22-25
@Dewms let's go !! I'm also on my study break
REMsleep · 41-45, F
Closure is a stupid idea. I used to need it, crave it, obsess over it then a light went off like a bomb in my head regarding how utterly useless it is and how needing it is crippling.
I am strong enough to understand what happened and to draw my conclusions about it. I must make choices that benefit me. You cannot wait on another person to give you closure. Life is not a movie or fairy tale with neat endings. It is what it is on to the next episode!
SW-User
You have to find your own closure, possibly with help from a therapist. Getting closure from someone else can often be impossible. It's like after a breakup that was unexpected and not of your choosing. You can't always rely on your ex to want to tell you the truth. They may never speak to you again. So you have to find peace on your own. There is a mental process that you can undertake to achieve this, but it takes time and you may need guidance.

 
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