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You have to find your own closure, possibly with help from a therapist. Getting closure from someone else can often be impossible. It's like after a breakup that was unexpected and not of your choosing. You can't always rely on your ex to want to tell you the truth. They may never speak to you again. So you have to find peace on your own. There is a mental process that you can undertake to achieve this, but it takes time and you may need guidance.