Do you ever wonder how others view you on here?

I don't believe anyone would think of anyone as weak or pathetic, because the lot of us here actually come to SW to vent and bare ourselves and share in details things we normally would never ever dare to talk about irl.
All of us here have a life that no one in SW knows about, they just know what you are sharing. What you want them to read. And if someone ever dared to looked down on you or pity you then you are not responsible for their stupid, judgemental mentality.
Don't let them discourage you from expressing yourself, don't prive yourself from this outlet because of some bullies.
And if the bully is your inner voice, then by all means, try to tell them that you are accepted no matter what you post, and you are beautiful and amazing no matter your issues, or actually, because of your issues and who you are. 💗
Much strength to you.

I think a lot of us, including me, come here to vent. I tell complete strangers things i would never tell some one that i know.

You appear to be a lovely woman who shares her hopes, dreams, intelligence, humor and kindness along with the challenges and struggles we all face in one form or another. I see your willingness to be open and vulnerable not as a weakness but a strength which I hope will help to bring you all the things you want in life.

I do. Sometimes I’m sure people just see me as whiny and dramatic

I long ago quit caring what other people think about me or view me .....

and TBH.... I am much happier.

Most of all, I'd like to be viewed as respectful and secondly, intellectual. But I know that you can't always get what you want. Regardless of that, I present myself in that manner whether it is the view of others or not.

Bearing your soul doesn't make you weak or pathetic. It takes strength to put yourself before those who might judge and criticize you. You are a wonderful spirit, and I enjoy interacting with your posts.

You are a sweetheart: kind and honest. I like you.

I think some on here like me. And it means a lot because I have no friends or social life offline. I only talk to my parents, coworkers, and my fellow SWifties (SWimmers? SWeoples?)

I think it would be natural for others to see one's posts as being a representation of oneself, more or less.

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I just automatically assume many focus on bad things. Something to criticize. So I try to not overshare to not give them something to hold onto.

I see you as a kind ,talented thoughtful person who doesn't give herself enough credit.

To me you come across as a very gentle, kind, caring, and empathetic woman.

I wonder that in real life as well

Nowt wrong with you Shell