I am frustrated now

I was goal oriented person my family started forcing me to get married and at the end I gave up and asked them to find a groom now when I said this they started making lame excuses and blaming me that I am in hurry first they pushed me to this side now I am angry frustrated what should I do my goal orientation is destroyed i am in hell pain now and suicidal too and urge to selfharm has increased I am in hell pain I yell at my family now and them feel guilty and crying all day feeling worthless failure and in hell pain

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Strict4u · 56-60, M

You should try working for your goal again or set another goal for yourself

Mindful · 56-60, F

Try to listen to what you really want to do… always listen to YOUR inner voice. Do not let others make yor decisions for you. Move out or away… without blaming anyone… if you don’t have the words to keep them from influencing you.

Deadgirl · 26-30, F

@Mindful my inner voice is destroyed now

Mindful · 56-60, F

@Deadgirl I have felt defeated in the past. In the winter, Even what appears to be dead is not. Do not rely on your “emotions”. And, now you can tell your parents “I was right”.
Life is never easy. The media makes it seem so. Even your parents were hoping easy answers for you. There are noneZ face the challenges, one at a time.if you can, just walk or run. It’s okay to be “dormant” and morn losses, but my hope is that you will get up again and fight like your ancestors fought.

https://youtu.be/dOkNkcZ_THA

Colonelmustardseed · 36-40

I’m sorry you’re hurting so much. I hope things get better for you and your family.

Deadgirl · 26-30, F

@Colonelmustardseed i wish it could get better

darkknightt · M

Now if they are not letting you married then you should prioritise your study and make a career for yourself in terms of education and job, marriage will come along the way

Deadgirl · 26-30, F

@darkknightt they wont let me do a job I want to do they wont let me be independent

LadyGrace · 70-79

@Deadgirl WHY? Do you live with them? You are in your twenties. Why can't you make your own choices? You're way too old for them to be telling you what to do. It's time to go out on your own even if you have to move away from them so they can't talk to you. Then you will get on your feet and you'll be your own boss and nobody can tell you what to do. Why do you allow them or anyone to boss you around? You do have a way out. You know right from wrong and you can make your own decisions. Get away and start living your life. Life is too short to be abused. You can do this.

darkknightt · M

@Deadgirl why?

Kumar007 · 36-40, M

As u know ek door close hua hai to another will be there.dont get so frustrated, kyuki thats d life.up and downs ate rahenge untill unless we breath last.so plz regain urself.

SW-User

Try to prioritise and way odds . Apka lia konsi achi ha side... family kabi apna sar par blame ni leti

Deadgirl · 26-30, F

@SW-User sai kaha

StrugglingSoul · M

Understandable

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