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how well do you handle public speaking to a large audience?

i'm a bit of a nervous nellie when it comes to that....i'm out.
Burnley123 · 41-45, M
It's a learnable skill.

I am an introvert who was living with my parents until I was 27. I then trained to be a teacher and that forced me to develop a presence and a personality in front of people. Now I'm deputy chair of a political debate group.

Tips:
1) Don't look nervous. Feeling nervous inside is normal but you have to project calm with body language. Control what you can control.
2) Ignore minor mistakes. Everyone makes these all the time. Keep the big picture in mind and plough on
speaking publicly to a crowd is easier then initiating a dialogue with a single stranger... for me at least
I’m fine with it … I’ve done it a few times about Green Banking, Risk Management, and projects that I did …

The more you do it, the better you get ..
PatKirby · M
Learned over time how to give convincing and persuasive presentations to a classroom of fellow graduate students. The key for me was knowing the subject matter well, evaluating the crowd and explaining the power point slide data in a understandable and meaningful manner. Especially the statistical data.
looping · 18-21
i once heavily debated breaking my arm to avoid speaking to a room of 4 people which i considered my friends.
Livingwell · 61-69, M
I've had training to learn how to handle that so not bad. But no need any longer as retired.
elafina · 36-40, F
I haven't tested it out lately
bookerdana · M
As soon as I start I'm OK
robertsnj · 56-60, M
I had to do it in college to get a business degree. Smaller groups but sometimes over 100. Hated at the time but the redundancy eventually made me numb to it. Ironically was really practical for the coporate world but presenations there are to small groups.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Scripted? I don't think I'm capable of doing that at all.
Improvising about something I'm interested in could work but only if I was in the right mindset, mood etc.
@CrazyMusicLover i hear ya.... i might be able to talk about beer....after consuming a few to take the edge off
Once I get rolling, it's successful, even enjoyable.
Despite my fear of large audiences, I'm finding it's a natural gift.
TheFragile · 46-50, M
It doesn't both me.
@TheFragile nerves of steel 💪
darkmere1983 · 46-50, M
nope i couldn't do it, too nervous.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
I do it daily, I just focus on a few faces
@V00doo i meant i could 'not' do,,,i edited, and i don't have to do one thankfully
@beermeplease Oops! I ended up reading at my gran's funeral. I got through it. My sister wrote it. All the kids came and hugged me after which was needed and beautiful. If Id planned on it, it wouldnt have happened
Handfull1 · 61-69, F
@beermeplease right there with you!
I’ve spoken in front of classes, played musical instruments in front of audiences…and I [b]still[/b] find public speaking difficult. 🫣
Lilnonames · F
Never had to do it but I had to speak alone in front of a judge in court.i did pretty good😋
@Lilnonames i only ever had to appear in court twice. once as a witness to an assault. but i was supposed to testify on behalf of the defendants. one of them threatened me and i was told to lie. that was back in high school. thank god it got settled out of court. had i taken the stand the judge would have known i was lying and slap a perjury charge on me. the other time i was defending my buddy's drunk driving charge...me and a couple of friends showed up and we were hoping the cop would try and point out one of us as the drivers....thus throwing it out of court. my friend got lucky....cop never showed up for court

 
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