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Anxiety has increased

1. I have decided I don't like my hair. The stylist did not cut it the way I wanted it, and he definitely didn't color it the way I wanted either. Waste of money. All he really did that was worthwhile was he cut off a lot of my split ends. 😒

2. Tomorrow (Monday) I have a scheduled phone call with the EEOC regarding the shady practices of my former employer. I'm nervous about that.

3. Tuesday is my job interview. 😨😨😨 I'm extremely nervous about returning to work, especially a call center, where I'll be handling frustrated people all day probably. I've never worked at a call center. They do provide training but I am very introverted and just not sure this is a good job for me. 😟 I'll take it of course, to pay the bills, but I really didn't want another job that's gonna make me miserable every day. 😔
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CassandraSissy · 26-30, T
Firstly, sweetie....I'll start with this...

A) You look cute so....y'know...SHUT UP! It suits you. I'm quite jealous of your curls...just sayin' ! 😘

B) Yes, reporting others can be tricky, and frustrating, and upsetting. I get that. Think that you're doing it for the good. Shady practices always need to be reported...for the ones that travel the road we have been on, after us...

C) Interviews are always a thing. Think of it as a way of promoting your skill set rather than an interview. You could look on it as a game; how to match what you have to offer to what they have...

...and then, of course, sweetie....you can then decide to take the job or not (if they offer it you, natch!)....and then, I'll like to think that any reputable organisation would give some training time/days - you have to have a grasp of what you are promoting/offering/advice to give etc. That's never something you can pick up in 5 mins.....

You got this, sweetie....ALL OF THIS...

'k?

😘
Lilnonames · F
@CassandraSissy yes she got it and like u say she looks beautiful 👌
JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M
Sorry for all the stress and I wish you the best.

You seem nice and helpful, I hope you do well. Sometimes I get a person who is really nice. It helps so much. The bigger problem, though, is just being able to speak to a human. First one has to exhaust the computer options, then wait on hold.

My doctor wanted to have a video appointment. I do not have a camera on my landline computer, and my mobile service is poor. So I said can I just visit? She said yes, and was there within the hour. It was a good thing since she decided to try a new med and had a free sample. She would have to see if insurance covered more. The next day CVS texted me and said they had more for me. It was covered!

I like meeting people in person!
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
You got lots on your plate. One day at a time Ambelina ❤️ Your hair can wait. Wear it in a bun/ pony tail / use scarf or headband if you don't like it let out til you have a new hair dress appointment.

To stand up for yourself against a bad employer is very important. All you have to do is, tell the truth. They're there for you, their work is to help you.

I'm gonna be honest that call center doesn't sound ideal to someone in your circumstances. But at least try it out before judging. Who knows maybe you find it great.
HumanEarth · F
I have a claim with the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission. My former company let me go with medical discrimination.

I just got the return letter back that they denied all claim and now I'm waiting for the next step.

The EEOC said they have 300 days to settle or the case could go to court

Funny thing is: on Tuesday I have a job interview to at 8am at a factory
Banksy83 · 41-45, M
There is nothing wrong with your hair
SW-User
Girl, take a deep breath and tell yourself you can do this. No job is easy and most jobs require interacting with people. Just think about the paycheck and you’ll be motivated. As for the salon, most do a terrible job that’s why I just get a trim. Don’t worry about it.
Jimbo7 · M
That was 3 weeks ago now Ambellina, was it really worth all that worry you put yourself through. Remember that the future is what your past couldnt control, so STOP worrying and just live your best life.
gamingnerd · 31-35, M
you look great keep it the way it is for now.

as far as the stylist they just tend to do what they what even when their prices are super high.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@gamingnerd next time I'm going to a different salon.
gamingnerd · 31-35, M
@DearAmbellina2113 that would be best
Breathe......

Then take it one task at a time.

 
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