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Does anyone else's anxiety/stress make them really horny?

I have chronic anxiety and PTSD and when I'm very anxious/stressed from this, I get weird waves of kind of uncomfortable horniness. Like I'm turned on but it feels really out of my control and is kind of scary horniness.
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astrosandorbits · 26-30, M
No... anxiety does the opposite to me. But if my girlfriend nurtures and comforts me and helps me climb out of my anxiety... i find it extremely attractive sometimes and can become aroused. Hard to explain. There's just something so beautiful and alluring about the way she is so nurturing.
Sandcastler · 26-30, M
@astrosandorbits oh yeah I absolutely understand that
Jordan420 · 61-69, F
i relieve stress that way
SnailTeeth · 41-45, M
Esp. when I was sleep-deprived for weeks and eating nothing but almonds... the amygdala can be a monster if you let it take executive control. It's an instinctive reaction, more than anything.
Sandcastler · 26-30, M
@SnailTeeth seems like you might have some other issues going there, almond man
SnailTeeth · 41-45, M
@Sandcastler Not at all, they're a fantastic source of protein, with a satiating fat content, and it's hard to over-indulge. I was working up to 16 hours per day, 7 days/week, and it didn't afford much time for cooking, and I was so used to being frugal that I refused to nourish myself properly.
I was doing it to save money, and avoid thinking about my dead/lost relatives.
I ended up burning out really really hard. I really Hindenburg'd the majority of my world. It was a shitshow.
My mental illness and my libido are tied very closely together. It’s always been that way for me and can be embarrassing. I made a post about it too.

https://similarworlds.com/thoughts/personal-feelings/4201444-Sometimes-I-feel-really-embarrassed-to-be-me
Sandcastler · 26-30, M
@JustGoneNow sorry. I do feel for you. mental health stuff making you want to do stuff you'll regret later just to cope is hard. actually I'd love to talk more about this if you'd like (and maybe absorb some wisdom)
@Sandcastler not private chat. I can chat on thread but I have a lot of paranoia issues and PM doesn’t feel safe to me.
@Sandcastler Sorry.
Not exactly.. its not simple to explain either.. the same triggers that could cause my anxiety can also cause EXCESSIVE horniness depending on what mindset i am in.. it feels like that is a physiological response.. sometimes the bass booms cause extreme anxiety to the point of litteral paralysis.. or.. they could get me so revved up i have to do something about it to function in public... it just kinda depends on whether i fight the incoming waves of energy or if i embrace them. When i fight them.. anxiety ensues.. when i embrace them.. well.. you can figure out the rest.. 🥵
Rolexeo · 26-30, M
Opposite, if I'm super anxious I can't even get hard
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@Rolexeo Same for me, the whole system is shut down.
SW-User
Same here bro 😵‍💫
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
No and it's a problem because when I'm stressed and need to sleep I can't knock myself out with masturbation as usual. It's very frustrating.
Sandcastler · 26-30, M
@CrazyMusicLover ah crap yeah I depend on doing that a lot
@CrazyMusicLover 🖤🤗
Markarth95 · 31-35, T
I'm exactly the same way. Its a coping mechanism for me. I'm currently in a very stressful situation and as a result I'm also very horny and it's bothering me
Jokekilla · 26-30, M
So that's what it could be... i have the same thing. I'm always stressed and I have extreme anxiety and PTSD, and it get very horny all the time 😅. There are times where I can't control it, who ever i end up with will either be very lucky or wanna leave.
Sandcastler · 26-30, M
@Jokekilla yeah exactly
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Ananke · 31-35, F
Yah I was sexually abused while being terrified so now being terrified automatically makes me physically aroused 🙄🙄 wonderful
@Ananke I am so sorry. 🥺
Sandcastler · 26-30, M
@Ananke yes I also have this. Guilt and shame also make me sexually aroused for the same reason
Mr7inch · 36-40, M
Yes helps me relax
Rhode57 · 61-69, M
Sometimes yes .
SW-User
I get horny playing scary games or watching scary movies but it isn't anxiety related ah
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
More like my body tells me to do something with all tempt up energy and either I clean have sex or exercise.
Sandcastler · 26-30, M
@Queendragonfly could combine those a little too ay ;))
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
Yes. I consider masturbation a vital part of my selfcare routine.
Sandcastler · 26-30, M
@Dolimyte yeah I get that. I don't think that's what I'm referring to though. I mean my anxiety itself makes me horny, not that I get anxious if I don't deal with my horniness

 
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