Sometimes I wonder...

Like I'm neurodivergent and have a bit of a big personality, I know sometimes I say things in a way that might poke people the wrong way but I don't think I'm a bad person, and I know mental health is not an excuse to be rude but sometimes I genuinely can't help the way the things I say go through, you know?
I'm never actively trying to upset anyone. I don't know how to feel when I apologize 5 times at least and give (i think valid) arguments for what I said and no one wants to hear me.
idk idk.
I just wonder what can I do to be better about it.

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Fieldmaster · 46-50, M

You can never make everyone happy.There is always going to be someone who is unhappy with what you see and what you do.

I never knew about neurodivergent. We all make mistakes. No, one is perfect or at least not that I know of.

PepsiColaP

If you are genuinely looking for advice and honest feedback there's a lot of free material online you can utilise to help you improve your communication/interpersonal skills , I would recommend checking those out

lovingdead · 36-40, M

Its not always about you being better (but good on you for trying) but sometimes its on people to not let their triggers and issue assumptions, past, etc stop them from actually listening to people

Infamous607 · 51-55, M

Things come from only two places.. a place of love .. or a place of selfishness... If you come from a place of love.. it's on them if they throw a fit.