Star is really struggling

As you could imagine Star is really having a hard time right now. She's so mad and confused. She told me this morning that she didn't think she wanted to go to the hospital to see him today. She just wants to have a nice day and enjoy the birthday party.

I'm not a smart guy. I don't know what to tell her. I don't blame her. It's hard seeing him like this. I think she just needs time to process. I hope.

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Matt85 · 36-40, M

just tell her that once the hospital visit is over it's party time

Cigarguy · M

@Matt85 we were going to go see him after the party. I was going to bring him leftovers and cake. She said she was thinking of going to a movie with her friends after the party instead of seeing him.

Matt85 · 36-40, M

@Cigarguy is it an important hospital visit?

Cigarguy · M

@Matt85 he father is in the hospital right now. He's stable but he's being held until Wednesday. So no it's not really important. She's just struggling with seeing him like this and she doesn't want to go today.

Matt85 · 36-40, M

@Cigarguy could you take her to see him for 10 minutes?

Cigarguy · M

@Matt85 I would if she asked me to. She's going through so much right now.