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jehova · 31-35, M
Ive been there. Still am in alot of ways. I suggest force a smile get lots of rest eat food u love and try to laugh as much as possible. Check out jokeoftheday.net for example find news to read get a hobby. Things like that. When u feel down call someone go for a walk do stuff expand your circle. Put effort in get results.
Domking · 61-69, M
I can feel your frustration.
But look at it in another way. These are offered, like in a restaurant menu. I can always say "no, thank you, I will have toast and coffee only" What I mean is get some interesting thing to do and some self-care work, and keep your focus on them. When other disturbing stuff comes to you give only a little attention then go back to your own interesting things.
It works, you may try it.
But look at it in another way. These are offered, like in a restaurant menu. I can always say "no, thank you, I will have toast and coffee only" What I mean is get some interesting thing to do and some self-care work, and keep your focus on them. When other disturbing stuff comes to you give only a little attention then go back to your own interesting things.
It works, you may try it.
Lack of money
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@Dianedidi7 money solves 99 percent of problems
Dianedidi7 · 31-35, F
@mysteryespresso Does that mean I’m NOT supposed to be happy without money?
Dianedidi7 · 31-35, F
@Dianedidi7 Oh, so you want me to be sad?
being · 36-40, F
Sometimes dear we have to go through situations that utterly come to destroy a shell of ourselves. Then we break free. There's another shell, but lighter. Lighter and lighter shells of selves until we become a creature child like again but with an adult maturity.
Others have written very good advice as how to navigate all these, in my perspective. So read others' comments and take little action..or deep rest.
Others have written very good advice as how to navigate all these, in my perspective. So read others' comments and take little action..or deep rest.
Dianedidi7 · 31-35, F
@being One comment answered “lack of money.” It’s like someone knows that I’m broke. Is that a good advice?
being · 36-40, F
@Dianedidi7 you know which is good advice and which doesn't resonate, so take what works for you and let the rest 😊
nobodyishome · 31-35, FNew
I'm sorry. I've been through serious depression as well, among so many other things. Here's something I wrote in those dark times. Maybe you will feel included as well:
https://similarworlds.com/mental-issues/depression-anxiety/5165742-Mon-Mechant-Depression-is-like-quicksand-It-can-mow-you-down
https://similarworlds.com/mental-issues/depression-anxiety/5165742-Mon-Mechant-Depression-is-like-quicksand-It-can-mow-you-down
Dianedidi7 · 31-35, F
@nobodyishome My name is Diane. Wait. She? Was it her I was talking about?
nobodyishome · 31-35, FNew
@Dianedidi7 yes, Diane.
Dianedidi7 · 31-35, F
@nobodyishome Oh, so she was making critiques. Do you agree with her?
I’ve noticed in hardships I’m supposed to learn something. Maybe they are angry at you and you’re supposed to analyze your actions and how you could avoid that with others next time. Also a victim mentality is also not ideal for progress.
Dianedidi7 · 31-35, F
@userfawkes1105 I mean I notice they dont care what I do, they just can’t stand me
@Dianedidi7 was there a time where they did care. If so try and find the catalyst when everything changed. If they never did then might be a lesson in wanting them to.
smiler2012 · 56-60
@Dianedidi7 🥺sorry this is the case hope things improve for you soon
What spirit might that be?