Bad memories

I hate that out of all the lovely people I have met the one that’s on my mind the most is the person that treated me the worst. It’s been two years and I still think about him every day. He hurt me more than I’ve ever been hurt by anyone but I still think about what I’m doing and what he would think of it constantly. And I still want him to be doing ok, I don’t even know why.

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Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

I had that for a long time with an ex. I found that by throwing myself into things that give me self confidence I'm less emotionally reliant on the validation of that person. It's like you have this space of validation that needs to be filled and if it isn't in your life then you'll seek it elsewhere.

WhateverWorks · 36-40

^ this @Ryannnnnn

Mamapolo2016 · F

Some of us can't 'unlove' people. It's just the way we're made.

smiler2012 · 56-60

this sounds like a very traumatic time you had and i am sorry. but you need too put him and the whole thing behind this is a fresh start and you should put it out of your mind if you can [moonsofmars]

Unlearn · 41-45, M

Our minds can be silly. It can sometimes hold on to past impressions that serve no value to us in life. Don't take everything your mind says so seriously...

CalmPassions · 31-35, M

You still care about him because you're still holding on to the good times you've had with him. Your heart wants more but your brain knows it's over.

TheQuietKid

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