Bad memories

I hate that out of all the lovely people I have met the one that’s on my mind the most is the person that treated me the worst. It’s been two years and I still think about him every day. He hurt me more than I’ve ever been hurt by anyone but I still think about what I’m doing and what he would think of it constantly. And I still want him to be doing ok, I don’t even know why.

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Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M

I had that for a long time with an ex. I found that by throwing myself into things that give me self confidence I'm less emotionally reliant on the validation of that person. It's like you have this space of validation that needs to be filled and if it isn't in your life then you'll seek it elsewhere.

WhateverWorks · 36-40

^ this @Ryannnnnn