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RuthHolmes67 · 56-60, F
You do have a hot body

SW-User
Um yeah there are attractive size 18 women too ...what is very attractive on anyone is confidence...that fits any size
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
@SW-User this

I have seen plenty of women in every size wear their own style with such confidence and ease that I wonder what I’m doing wrong haha

It’s about a vibe and finding what makes you feel beautiful
SW-User
@WaryWitchWandering yes exactly...it's not the clothes it's your attitude about yourself ...
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
@SW-User attitude about yourself… and you can choose to show it with fashion or be more modest

For sure

Beautiful
TexChik · F
Don’t let the media fool you into believing that you have to be tiny to be beautiful. Being fit is far more important. A lower BMI is good. A healthy diet, and daily exercise ( walking ) will help get you there. It’s a radical life style change for everyone that does it , and it’s not easy, but it’s very doable
SW-User
Size 4, size 18, doesnt mean shiz to me. If she has an angelic soul, a good person, she will be attractive to me no matter the size.
JohnnyNoir · 56-60, M
Don't say that. Body size doesn't define who you are
Viper · M
Lizzo
https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/lizzo-shouts-out-women-over-the-size-of-18-225342360.html
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
@Viper love her
SW-User
@Viper shes gorgeous
RubySoo · 56-60, F
Sexy is a state of mind!!!! People of all shapes and sizes can be hot, but you have to learn to be comfortable in yr own skin. So many of us, whatever our size have hang ups about our shape or size. If you are really unhappy with your shape, you can change it with diet exercise if you believe it will improve how you feel about yourself.
I think you look great in the pics, shapely, womanly. But it about how you feel inside.

Btw..... ive always felt the same about my own body shape and weight, so i do understand how you feel. XX
Find your style find clothes you feel cute, confident, and Comfortable wearing I’m a size 24 and it’s more about what you feel hot in
Me feeling all of the above
Belladonna · 41-45, F
You got curves, girl. Embrace them. <3
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
@IAmNothing I feel disproportionate

I think everyone has a different image in mind of their “ideal body”

If I can embrace my body as it is right now, I can learn to love and care for it better.
Belladonna · 41-45, F
@WaryWitchWandering Your body is beautiful. Sorry, I meant this for OP. I don't know your body, but I'm sure you're beautiful too.
Belladonna · 41-45, F
@IAmNothing Your body is beautiful, from what I can see.
I won't try to tell you you're wrong because I know it won't change how you feel. I struggle with self image as well. I hope that you can come to love your body while you work towards healthy goals.
TheThinker · 56-60, M
As others have said, it's all about confidence. You have a nice figure with good curves (and from another post of yours, a pretty face with nice hair too).

One of the sexiest women I ever knew was a size 28, she wore it with confidence and pride, and was never short of attention, even from skinny handsome guys.

Stop beating yourself up and go out and live life (easier said than done, I know!).
nedkelly · 61-69, M
You lack confidence, some of these so called thin people are as thick as two bricks. TV has a great deal to answer for when they promote shows like the Kardashians as in my opinion NON are attractive - they are like high price escorts
Montanaman · M
"Define Beauty"

Beauty is...The way the wind blows your hair into your face at the start of a summer storm. The rain begins to fall gently at first, then pouring down with big droplets as big as your eyes. You smile and laugh as the downpour causes your make-up to run, you could care less, you're having too much fun. Afterwards, the storm's past- You bite your lip with a pouty frown, the bare flesh underneath your clinging wet dress visible and tempting. You... All packaged in a size Eighteen, you are with out a doubt the most beautiful creature that I've ever seen.

-Montana. 🤗😎✍️🥰
You don’t have to be skinny to be beautiful. But you also shouldn’t allow yourself to be unhealthy in whatever size you’re comfortable in.

I was never in the 0-4 size range, not even in my 20’s. I’m happy with how I look at size 8-10. Healthy diet and active lifestyle are more important.
justanothername · 51-55, M
You are a real woman. Don’t ever forget that.
ihurtmychin · 26-30, M
you look great ! no one is perfect ...
Penny · 46-50, F
ive seen bigger girls that look sexy. i think its all in how you present yourself. makeup and hair and flattering clothes make a big difference plus attitude. pics are different. hard to get flattering pics when you are bigger. (not that it doesnt happen sometimes) but dont go by pictures only. not every guy only likes rail thin women
iamelijah · 26-30, M
Don't worry girl. At your age, you still can lose your weight. No need to rush. As long you have consistent workout and with proper diet, you'll losing weight.

You don't have to be thin. Enough to have moderate ideal body size.
Entwistle · 56-60, M
If you are unhappy with your size/weight and if it's possible you need to make small lifestyle changes.
Take it one step at a time and do it for yourself nobody else.
Carissimi · F
If you are unhappy with your dress size, the good news is it’s reversible. Hard to do, but still reversible. I feel ugly now that I’m old, and that’s not reversible. Be thankful that if you want to change, you still can. One day, it will be too late.
Wghtlvr · M
"Hot" women come in all sizes, including 18 and larger!
Entwistle · 56-60, M
Different men like different women.
Personally i dont find skinny women attractive. People like different things.
You can find the reason in the background. Everything is unorganized.
Maybe you wanna start with that
SW-User
I'm willing to be an accountability partner if you so wish. We can help each other out
SW-User
You don’t have to lose weight to be attractive. But if you’re unhappy with your weight you can do something about it.
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
You can be thin if you put your mind to it. Losing weight can be a bit of a mind fuck the first few weeks but once you get into it and do it properly, the weight really comes off
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
My wife is a 16/18 and at your age the hottest woman I knew. Don’t let size rule your life.
SW-User
Stop wishing and start working out and you will get what you want
It's not about size don't subscribe to what the media is selling you
SW-User
that second image is weird
Montanaman · M
@SW-User like...weird? 😳
Jungleman · M
you are beautiful as you are, don't hate yourself.
could be worse. You have your health
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Djac17 · 22-25, M
Well I’m sorry but I’m down with the Thicness 😏
Lostpoet · M
It's not you fault you can always lose weight
TheCoolestCat · 31-35, M
im a size 10, lol but im a guy some of the time
ExtremeNext · 36-40
Look somebody has to say it
Yep you are a fatty 😁
SW-User
Iwish i was a little bit taller
I wish i was a baller
gregloa · 61-69, M
You are something
Spacesbetweenus · 31-35, F
In the meanwhile,clear the clutter around your sink ,looks messy
SW-User
Ashley Graham is absolutely gorgeous
SageWanderer · 70-79, M
@SW-User Agreed!
nedkelly · 61-69, M
@SW-User 100% correct and the media should be showing this
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
Be strong, be fit for your type.

Skinny is bones, curves are soft .

Confidence is all.💜
KiwiDan · 31-35, M
Damn! 😍
KiwiDan · 31-35, M
@IAmNothing why did you phrase it like that? Did I wrong you somehow? If so I'm sorry.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@KiwiDan no i just remember people on here in the past trying to force us together
KiwiDan · 31-35, M
@IAmNothing wait wtf. I don't have any recollection of that. Wtf is wrong with people.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I am a size 12/14. You don’t have to be a size 0-4 to be beautiful
Bang5luts · M
Same bruh
Damn, i wish i was a size 18, im far bigger .. but women size 0 to 4 also struggle
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@SimplyMeChantou i used to be a 20 💀💀💀💀💀
@IAmNothing im a 22
Applepiedom · 61-69, M
Bull shit.
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