Don’t let the media fool you into believing that you have to be tiny to be beautiful. Being fit is far more important. A lower BMI is good. A healthy diet, and daily exercise ( walking ) will help get you there. It’s a radical life style change for everyone that does it , and it’s not easy, but it’s very doable
You lack confidence, some of these so called thin people are as thick as two bricks. TV has a great deal to answer for when they promote shows like the Kardashians as in my opinion NON are attractive - they are like high price escorts
Sexy is a state of mind!!!! People of all shapes and sizes can be hot, but you have to learn to be comfortable in yr own skin. So many of us, whatever our size have hang ups about our shape or size. If you are really unhappy with your shape, you can change it with diet exercise if you believe it will improve how you feel about yourself. I think you look great in the pics, shapely, womanly. But it about how you feel inside.
Btw..... ive always felt the same about my own body shape and weight, so i do understand how you feel. XX
As others have said, it's all about confidence. You have a nice figure with good curves (and from another post of yours, a pretty face with nice hair too).
One of the sexiest women I ever knew was a size 28, she wore it with confidence and pride, and was never short of attention, even from skinny handsome guys.
Stop beating yourself up and go out and live life (easier said than done, I know!).
You can be thin if you put your mind to it. Losing weight can be a bit of a mind fuck the first few weeks but once you get into it and do it properly, the weight really comes off
I won't try to tell you you're wrong because I know it won't change how you feel. I struggle with self image as well. I hope that you can come to love your body while you work towards healthy goals.
Beauty is...The way the wind blows your hair into your face at the start of a summer storm. The rain begins to fall gently at first, then pouring down with big droplets as big as your eyes. You smile and laugh as the downpour causes your make-up to run, you could care less, you're having too much fun. Afterwards, the storm's past- You bite your lip with a pouty frown, the bare flesh underneath your clinging wet dress visible and tempting. You... All packaged in a size Eighteen, you are with out a doubt the most beautiful creature that I've ever seen.
ive seen bigger girls that look sexy. i think its all in how you present yourself. makeup and hair and flattering clothes make a big difference plus attitude. pics are different. hard to get flattering pics when you are bigger. (not that it doesnt happen sometimes) but dont go by pictures only. not every guy only likes rail thin women
If you are unhappy with your dress size, the good news is it’s reversible. Hard to do, but still reversible. I feel ugly now that I’m old, and that’s not reversible. Be thankful that if you want to change, you still can. One day, it will be too late.
Don't worry girl. At your age, you still can lose your weight. No need to rush. As long you have consistent workout and with proper diet, you'll losing weight.
You don't have to be thin. Enough to have moderate ideal body size.
If you are unhappy with your size/weight and if it's possible you need to make small lifestyle changes. Take it one step at a time and do it for yourself nobody else.
