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Why do people think it's ok to make half assed plans, then completely ignore you on the day in question?

I feel like an idiot sending texts like "am I still coming to yours?"
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I dunno, I'd think without plan alterations the existing ones how ever half assed are still standing. but I suppose it depends on what you're planning on/doing/et al.
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@Adelh91: hrm. yeah, I'd bail at this point and ... I dunno, watch a movie I guess.
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
@malcontent: I'm just gonna go to sleep. So annoyed
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@Adelh91: sorry. but seems like a useful plan.
I had that happen not long ago. A day was planned to go to lunch and shop. I called her up and hour after she missed the arrival time and she said "oh I forgot"😒

No more plans have been made for her-wtf?
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
It's just rude and hurtful. They think their time is more important than anyone elses
MLGecko · 46-50, M
No defense for that... But I am sure you will get the "my phone was dead"
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AliceMortem · 31-35, F
@SuperCrazee: mate, I don't even know you, you're a psycho
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Invisible · 26-30, M
This is why I don't make plans
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
I don't often get to see her but she's sooooo flakey
billstickers · 36-40, M
Sorry but this guy is a waster all i have heard of him get out pronto it will be best in the end.
billstickers · 36-40, M
@Adelh91: except when he fails to text
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
@billstickers: he doesn't let me down there either tbh
billstickers · 36-40, M
@Adelh91: you posted the other day that he had still not to worry hope you have good weekend
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
Because you allow it. You should call them out on it and then make plans for yourself.
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
@Fungirlmmm: she doesn't even think it's a big deal though, and she's not an asshole either she's just bad at keeping to things.
I usually let it go but I'm really mad this time. We've been trying to organise something for weeks because I hardly ever get to see her. Well fuck it
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@Adelh91: Lol buy her a watch or a daytimer2 program for her phone and include a little note with it. Something like... Since you missed 4 out of 5 dates in 2016 I thought we would start 2017 off with me helping you get more organized. :)
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
@Fungirlmmm: no I give up with her now. To be honest I would have earlier if it wasn't for the fact she's really kind. I'd rather she was an asshole so I'd feel more justified
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It what introverts do best.
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
She's quite outgoing. She just makes me feel like she's too busy to have time for me all the time though I've known her since school
Gawd, I hate that, too. Makes me less inclined to commit when they extend invitations because I don't know if they'll follow through.
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
I think I actually give up. We've been friends over 10 years and I've tried to hold on but there's just no point any more

 
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