Why do people think it's ok to make half assed plans, then completely ignore you on the day in question?
I feel like an idiot sending texts like "am I still coming to yours?"
31-35, F
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Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
Because you allow it. You should call them out on it and then make plans for yourself.
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@Adelh91: Yes, you go about your day and the next time they want to make plans you say well here's the thing... The last time you asked me to go out I waited and you broke those plans. I decided never to wait around on you again. And then go on to live your life.
AliceMortem · 31-35, F
@Fungirlmmm: she doesn't even think it's a big deal though, and she's not an asshole either she's just bad at keeping to things.
I usually let it go but I'm really mad this time. We've been trying to organise something for weeks because I hardly ever get to see her. Well fuck it
I usually let it go but I'm really mad this time. We've been trying to organise something for weeks because I hardly ever get to see her. Well fuck it
Fungirlmmm · 51-55, F
@Adelh91: Lol buy her a watch or a daytimer2 program for her phone and include a little note with it. Something like... Since you missed 4 out of 5 dates in 2016 I thought we would start 2017 off with me helping you get more organized. :)
AliceMortem · 31-35, F