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Do you ever wonder if you are a good enough christian [Spirituality & Religion]

I sometimes think about whether I am a failure as a christian because of my flaws. I know that I am wholly redeemed by Christ's dying for my sins. But am I actually a good influence towards others leading them towards wanting Christ in their lives.

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SweetMae · 70-79, F

No, I don't wonder. If we were perfect, we wouldn't need Jesus.

We have a powerful and loving God. I look at some of the people mentioned in the Bible. They had their faults but they repented and continued to follow Jesus. They were called the children of God.

PhoenixPhail · M

@SweetMae Very nice answer. 🙂

syfy86 · 46-50, M

Exactly @SweetMae! Peter denied Christ, David was an adulterer, Thomas doubted, Saul actually killed Christians. They're examples that we're not saved because we're perfect but because of the enormity of God's grace. God doesn't seek out the righteous but wants all of us.

SW-User

I think Jesus knows each of us and our sins. As long as we accept Christ as our savior, we will be cleansed and they will be washed away upon entering the Kingdom of God.

SW-User

I understand the sentiment but you can't think that way. First - your flaws are no longer the burden they once were. You're saved by Christ, your redemption is complete, and your sanctification is under way.

cecile · F

i am doomed for the things i have done and do still

Adstar · 56-60, M

@cecile Not if you are forgiven them..

karysma · 31-35, F

@cecile It's never too late. Let the Holy Spirit help you. He's with you 24/7 for a reason. Use that to your advantage cause trust me when he's done with you you'll look in the mirror and love what you see. I know I'm loving who he's helping me become and it looks just like my Heavenly Father.

SW-User

@cecile But why would you finish that way... there's no need.

jfox4anr · 46-50, M

I think we are all flawed and that none of us will ever be good enough…thats why we needed a savior

fionawill · F

You are as you were created and how society moulds you, religion is full of contradiction, in 1 part they say to turn the other cheek whole another part says an eye for an eye. So if try and follow the logic its not possible its meant to keep you guessing so are you perfect no, no one is, just be you and sort out the details as you go. Dont ponder on old documents written for another era.

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Diotrephes · 70-79, M

@jshm2

To be mortal is to be flawed - it's why Adam and Eve had to leave heaven, as they were no longer "perfect" enough to stay immortal. But they sought forgiveness to God and were redeemed before they died. You should do the same.

Adam & Eve were never immortal. They got kicked out so that they wouldn't eat from the tree of life and live forever =

Genesis 3:22 (CEV) = The Lord said, “They now know the difference between right and wrong, just as we do. But they must not be allowed to eat fruit from the tree that lets them live forever.”

Pinkstarburst · 51-55, F

I don’t until other people put doubts in my mind. Then I have to return to the Word and remember that there is only one who knows my heart and only one I must answer to.

Beckylove · 22-25, F

Just remember god will always love you no matter what you do. It’s always best to live life too the fullest.

SW-User

@Beckylove truer words have never been spoken. Regardless of the age speaking them.

Redbeard · 56-60, M

Always remember that God's Grace Is Sufficient Because of His Completed Work at the cross.

Fa8393 · 41-45, M

Christ performed his atoning sacrifice for us to rely on him through faith , if you belive in the repenting doctrine that means we need to overcome our own sins to be closer to him . We also need to serve others too . Those two things helps us become less selfish.

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fionawill · F

@Fa8393 thats fair

Diotrephes · 70-79, M

@Fa8393 The Jesus character was just a scapegoat.
https://www.biblegateway.com/quicksearch/?quicksearch=scapegoat&version=NKJV

Klingwood · 61-69, M

@Diotrephes lol if you say so

Nikki921 · F

That’s a good question for everyone.

TheDisciplinarian · 61-69, M

@Nikki921 what Question ?

SW-User

You are not a failure because of your flaws.
You are a sinner.
You are justified in Christ and you no longer have to worry about it,… because you are saved and know the end of the story.

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Diotrephes · 70-79, M

@Justice4All

And what about the Jews who came from Europe? Are they descendants of biblical Jews or what?

Remember, in the biblical fairytale Jews were scattered from Spain to Ethiopia to India.

https://www.biblegateway.com/quicksearch/?quicksearch=india&resultspp=250&version=CEB

https://www.biblegateway.com/quicksearch/?quicksearch=spain&resultspp=250&version=CEB

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Diotrephes · 70-79, M

@Justice4All

Yeah, but there were 6 different tribes in that land, and they were all called Jews at one time... they were called Yudeans because there was no such thing as a JEW in Jesus day.... Yudeans became Jews. In the passage you mentioned, Jesus is talking to a Samaritan. The Samaritans, Phoenicians, Canaanites, Edomites and Arabs were also integrated in with the Jews. Also, King Herod was half Arab and Half Edomite.

Technically, the Jesus character was a Galilean. He had to be born in Bethlehem in order to satisfy the prophecy.

Micah 5:2 (CEB) = As for you, Bethlehem of Ephrathah, though you are the least significant of Judah’s forces, one who is to be a ruler in Israel on my behalf will come out from you. His origin is from remote times, from ancient days."

Matthew 2:6 (CEB) = "You, Bethlehem, land of Judah, by no means are you least among the rulers of Judah, because from you will come one who governs, who will shepherd my people Israel.”

People were called Jews in the Old Testament. There are countless verses in all Bible versions. Of course there were no "J" words before the 1500s AD.

looking4thesun · M

I would think that if you had failed your faith, god would put you over his lap 😉

SW-User

Yes of course. Thankfully, we don’t have to worry about it

Diotrephes · 70-79, M

@Caraa97 Please be sure too let us know when you sell all of your stuff and give the money to the poor people around you and engage in self-mutilation to keep from sinning.

How's that fasting coming along?

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Diotrephes · 70-79, M

@SomeLikeItHot

Self mutilation…try some sober thought.

You really should read the fairytale =

Matthew 5:29-30 (CEB) = "29 And if your right eye causes you to fall into sin, tear it out and throw it away. It’s better that you lose a part of your body than that your whole body be thrown into hell. 30 And if your right hand causes you to fall into sin, chop it off and throw it away. It’s better that you lose a part of your body than that your whole body go into hell."

So, get to chopping or you will go to hell. (message approved by Jesus).

SomeLikeItHot ·

@Diotrephes
You know absolutely know not a thing about the Holy Bible let alone attempt exegetical reasoning.
Quit being a poser!

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Jake966 · 56-60, M

We are all human and all have flaws

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Fa8393 · 41-45, M

Sure the atonement is important, but you can not justify yourself to be getting out of sin . The gospel of Jesus christ helps us overcome sin . Let me remind you church is for sinners not for saints .

Diotrephes · 70-79, M

@Fa8393

Let me remind you church is for sinners not for saints .

Really? Please be sure to tell the guy who wrote 1 Corinthians 5:11-13 (CEB) = "11 But now I’m writing to you not to associate with anyone who calls themselves “brother” or “sister” who is sexually immoral, greedy, someone who worships false gods, an abusive person, a drunk, or a swindler. Don’t even eat with anyone like this. 12 What do I care about judging outsiders? Isn’t it your job to judge insiders? 13 God will judge outsiders. Expel the evil one from among you."

SW-User

I know there is a need to reflect and pray and work on improving oneself. But seriously, you can't be "good enough" - that's the whole point of salvation, justification and eventual sanctification.

ozgirl512 · 26-30, F

Nope!
Do you?

SW-User

That's good. You're not, not a good enough christian, through your flaws. Though one needs to be leading a life that genuinely repents and seeks Christ, but you will still have flaws.

pdockal · 56-60, M

Nope and never did ... I don't believe in the structure any more (have numerous reasons)
I believe if I treat others better then I want to be treated them I'm following his way

Dez580 · 61-69, M

I am a christian and multiple sinner. I am though often disturbed by those who claim to be the chosen ones and very happy to judge others,but never themselves.

SomeLikeItHot ·

@Dez580 I would challenge your claim to Christianity. I don’t know of any Church that embraces Naturism and the solicitation of corporal punishment.
Try again?

SW-User

You can have that question, but be careful falling into reliance on works.

I believe we’ve discussed a similar questions before

Klingwood · 61-69, M

It's tough for sure. If we are honest about it. My flaws worry me deeply. Wondering if God will ever change those flaws in my life

littlematthew123 · 22-25, M

I dont think I am I still get into trouble alot and dont like to do as im told but only cause other teens are allow to do alot more then I am

Fa8393 · 41-45, M

Christ died for us to allow us to repent and to live again , he did that for us . Our weakness are there for us to overcome them .

RadioDust · 36-40, M

everyone has flaws, and not everyone can feel like they're good enough. All you can do is be the best you can do in your own way.

SW-User

I do wonder... but it's a rhetorical question, since by definition I am not. This is why I'm saved by Christ, cause I need it.

SW-User

Yes, often actually. I know salvation isn’t works oriented, but it still crosses my mind.

Filipinalez · 18-21, F

God loves us despite our flaws never doubt that.

Diotrephes · 70-79, M

@Filipinalez

God loves us despite our flaws never doubt that.

God hates people wih the wrong ancestry or who are physically defective.

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dale74 · M

what do you see in the united states in 10-20 years with the current political climate

TheDisciplinarian · 61-69, M

Now that is Deep
Helping others to Seek Redemptions through Christian LifeStyle

SW-User

You are human and not christ. You have your own failings and not perfect.

PhoenixPhail · M

I'm not a Christian at all. Does that mean I'm going to hell?

Fa8393 · 41-45, M

Forget about yourself and go to work , serve others .

Wiseacre · F

@Fa8393 actually good advice

ExperienceDLT · M

I don't have any religion I don't believe in much of anything

rayoflight · 46-50, M

Just do your best... He already died for our sins.

Diotrephes · 70-79, M

@rayoflight

Just do your best... He already died for our sins.

If that's true then what is the point of Judgment Day?

Wiseacre · F

Never, i’m non religious and do the best I can for self and others..

SW-User

I feel like I am never enough, but I sure keep trying!!!

Justme264 · 70-79, M

Yes... often... but we all have flaws. Are any of us perfect

StrictLoving · 56-60, M

@Justme264 that's why we need saving!

Randmly · 56-60, M

I can't msg you because you haven't checked the last ones

looking4thesun · M

If it's your calling i am sure you are a good representative

Justme264 · 70-79, M

Why do you think you might be a bad influence?

Randmly · 56-60, M

Would you message me please?

TheDisciplinarian · 61-69, M

@Randmly who ??

ozgirl512 · 26-30, F

We all have our flaws... Better get used to it...

Randmly · 56-60, M

Nice..
But you won't msg me..lol

SW-User

You do the best you can. lol

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