What's a red flag that turns you on?

A man who isn’t afraid to be in charge and put me in my place (without being abusive)

I don’t like to be hit.. my ex husband was very abusive and I don’t want that

People say it’s a red flag having a man be in charge but it makes me feel safe and cared for (probably due to daddy issues lol) but that being said it could lead to bad situations like with my ex husband if you aren’t with the right kind of man…

Obvious out of bounds behavior (hitting, verbal abuse, etc) aside .. it can be a tough line to walk.

A lot of women talk about it being attractive to have a man taking the lead but in reality want the power of controlling decisions themselves and refuse to let him / follow when he does. The same conversation that is holding a boundary appropriately by one woman gets labeled as controlling or disrespectful by another. Its an interesting dynamic when words dont match actions.

I luv guys who r normally domineering, reckless & aggressive but r super soft, understanding & caring 2 me lol 🤣🤣🤣 I dunno why but I keep on swooning 4 the stereotypical bad boys 😝😝😝 especially 1s who r also super rough during sex & luv 2 experiment with sex just like I do lol 🤣🤣🤣

I agree with you.

A flirtatious woman, because though I love her flirting with me all the ones like that in my past dating ended up flirting and cheating on me. That Damned double edged sword thingy.

gotta ask mums opinion on everything....

No red flags for me - period. Nothing is worth that pain and headache.

I loved the chase

The BESTEST flag ever

I don't find any red flags a turn on

Don’t have one

A little bit of crazy can be fun - assuming there’s an intelligent foundation.

I love a prick.

Some types of masochistic men.