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What's a red flag that turns you on?

For me it's someone protective instincts and willing to fight for anyone or anything. But at the same time that same person can be controlling and abusive.

Its a double edge sword
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Obvious out of bounds behavior (hitting, verbal abuse, etc) aside .. it can be a tough line to walk.

A lot of women talk about it being attractive to have a man taking the lead but in reality want the power of controlling decisions themselves and refuse to let him / follow when he does. The same conversation that is holding a boundary appropriately by one woman gets labeled as controlling or disrespectful by another. Its an interesting dynamic when words dont match actions.
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Right, its like mashed potatos
@HumanEarth Or that "Where do you want to go to eat" game..