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ViciDraco · 36-40, M
A big thing is to look at how he treats other people. It's one of the reasons that the date at a nice sit down restaurant has value. Guys are going to be nice to you because they want something. But look and see how they treat a waiter who is obligated to serve them. Rudeness to a waiter is a huge red flag. Conversely, being overly polite all the time to everyone is frequently a mask worn by manipulators.
Look for real kindness and compassion towards others. If it seems too perfect it probably is. But otherwise it's very telling to see how a guy treats people they aren't trying to get anything from / who they feel owes them something.
Look for real kindness and compassion towards others. If it seems too perfect it probably is. But otherwise it's very telling to see how a guy treats people they aren't trying to get anything from / who they feel owes them something.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@ViciDraco I agree, a man I was around, I thought he was really kind person... He sometimes treated strangers badly to take out his frustration, I thought once in a while everyone gets frustrated.... . He acts overly nice and helping towards others. Later he showed his true self to me.... He was a really evil person. He only treats people who benefits him in some way good. He don't mind hurting anyone who is useless in his life even if that person did nothing wrong to him
He tries too hard to be good.... But he seems very cowardly and follows majority people blindly even if the people around him in that environment are bad
He tries too hard to be good.... But he seems very cowardly and follows majority people blindly even if the people around him in that environment are bad
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MarkPaul · 26-30, M
I don't think you know how to behave on a proper date... with a real man.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@sahi81 problem is sometimes i don't like myself, my flaws and behaviours , some of them r kinda hard to change and some even r even impossible. And also trust issues with men due to my past.
I am kinda scared that if good men exists they might not like me back. Or i might only meet bad men just like in my past
I am kinda scared that if good men exists they might not like me back. Or i might only meet bad men just like in my past
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sahi81 · 22-25, F
@bijouxbroussard I know a man who takes his frustrations on anyone vulnerable and even total strangers in vulnerable positions. Sounds like a power thing for men. Those men seemed to be bullied at their homes or other peers to be in power or else get punished. They end up taking out stress on people who appear weak.
Women who feel powerless also hurt random strangers or people who appear weak. But they don't do it in violent way.... They r more manipulative and sneaky
Women who feel powerless also hurt random strangers or people who appear weak. But they don't do it in violent way.... They r more manipulative and sneaky
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@bijouxbroussard a women turned people against me just for pointing out her mistake. She wanted me to forgive her but I didn't bcuz she wasn't even admitting her mistake. I don't think asking forgiveness is bad but she was making it all one-sided like nothing is her mistake and everything is my mistake.
Women too have ego problem
Women too have ego problem
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