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ViciDraco · 41-45, M
A big thing is to look at how he treats other people. It's one of the reasons that the date at a nice sit down restaurant has value. Guys are going to be nice to you because they want something. But look and see how they treat a waiter who is obligated to serve them. Rudeness to a waiter is a huge red flag. Conversely, being overly polite all the time to everyone is frequently a mask worn by manipulators.
Look for real kindness and compassion towards others. If it seems too perfect it probably is. But otherwise it's very telling to see how a guy treats people they aren't trying to get anything from / who they feel owes them something.
Look for real kindness and compassion towards others. If it seems too perfect it probably is. But otherwise it's very telling to see how a guy treats people they aren't trying to get anything from / who they feel owes them something.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@ViciDraco I agree, a man I was around, I thought he was really kind person... He sometimes treated strangers badly to take out his frustration, I thought once in a while everyone gets frustrated.... . He acts overly nice and helping towards others. Later he showed his true self to me.... He was a really evil person. He only treats people who benefits him in some way good. He don't mind hurting anyone who is useless in his life even if that person did nothing wrong to him
He tries too hard to be good.... But he seems very cowardly and follows majority people blindly even if the people around him in that environment are bad
He tries too hard to be good.... But he seems very cowardly and follows majority people blindly even if the people around him in that environment are bad