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Be honest with me

Is honesty the best policy really?
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SatanBurger · 36-40, F
I have yet to figure that out. Everyone says they value honesty but they never consider what that means. One person's honesty might be different from another. And then you have people who have things going on by which they see the world differently.

I think of neurodivergent people. Bipolar, autism, adhd, personality disorders, depression. They'll have different ways of seeing the world 🌎

I'm not trying to say that anyone is correct or incorrect as that's highly subjective but I don't think people get what honesty means
WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
Maybe not always. (People are gonna come for me haha) I think we all think we want honesty 100% of the time, but maybe some things are best left unsaid.

That being said… Lying knowingly with intent to deceive someone or manipulate their perception is unacceptable
Punxi · F
@WaryWitchWandering fully agree with the second part.
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
@WaryWitchWandering Yes you don't need to say hurtful things to people. The old adage, if you have nothing good to say, don't say anything at all.
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
So here's the thing. There are lies we tell that are meant to harm, and lies we tell that are meant to help. The latter group are known as "little white lies," and honestly, they are the social lubricant of our society. Things like, "No, sweetie, it wasn't you, it was them," or "Yeah, you sing great" after an absolutely awful karaoke session. Things that, if we had a 100% honesty policy, would lose us friends.

So no. I don't think honesty is always the best policy, so long as you avoid telling harmful lies. Omitting things people have a right to know, deceiving them about things you've done, or things that others are doing. Those are the kind of lies we should avoid.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Not always. Sometimes you have to lie to save your life but I think most people living in civilized parts of the world don't really find themselves in situations like that.
goliathtree · 56-60, M
for piece of mind? Absolutely. Financially? probably not...but I guess I would rather be honest.
BlueVeins · 22-25

You tell me.
Honesty to oneself always. Honesty to dishonest people I don't think so.
smiler2012 · 61-69
@Whyme 🤔oh i think so
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
Not always
exexec · 70-79, C
Usually, but I think everyone deserves a few secrets. Also, the answer to the question: "Do these pants make my butt look big" is always "No, dear."
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
Not always. White lies keep relationships and societies running smoothly. It is not always necessary to say the hurtful truth. Its a technique humans use to get things harmonius.
Iwillwait · M
🤔 This feels like a trap.

🏃
Jonjdw · 51-55, M
In most cases yes.
hunkalove · 70-79, M
Depends on how well you can lie.
Not always...

Does my @$$ look fat in these jeans?
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
@sstronaut The key to saying yes without getting murdered is all in the tone.

"Yeah, kinda" in a thoughtful tone? Instant death.

An enthusiastic "Hell, yeah it does" with a touch of arousal? You just might get lucky tonight.
@LordShadowfire
Nope, tried it...
Baby, you know
I LOVE your phat @$$
Instant crying, and was in the dog house with a pissed off GF for more than a week...



Personally, those jeans were tighter on her than any else she wears, I don't think it was her, but she was wearing smaller pants, or smaller cut, but it was the clothing, not her.

But I guess it was her time, and she was feeling extra emotional, and I failed to realize it 😥 but she was laughing and joking with me like normal, not too long earlier.
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
@sstronaut Well, that shows what I know.
NinaTina · 26-30, F
I only tell the truth when I lie.
Summer2025 · F
if you have to ask you aren't a honest person and you are trying to make yourself feel better about it
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acpguy · C
Yes.................you do not have to remember your lies.
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Iwillwait · M
@jshm2
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
@jshm2 It probably depends on how much you like the rest of the person the bum in question is connected to!
Nebula · 41-45, F
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
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