Do you sugarcoat things or are you brutally honest?

@NoGamesTolerated Well then confusion must be the MOTHER of all emotions. I've tried to learn to live with it since losing the 850.

Actually it was more than that . It cost a lot just to cross those 4 states to make the visit in the first place.

But in my world no one even secretly WANTS to be lied to. People don't have a secret desire to be robbed blind by a brand new friend or anyone else. I haven't visited that institution yet, if I'm wrong...

@PleasurePunch I’m ending this cause we are definitely not on the same page… and what you are saying makes no sense at all as a reply to my comment!

@NoGamesTolerated thanks for the punch in the face. BYE!!

@PepsiColaP Agreed, honestly doesn't necessarily mean you have to brutal or insensitive. I find that saying something tactfully can convey the truth in a positive way. An intelligent person can usually see through this but might appreciate the effort.

@JimboSaturn my mum is very good at this and I have noticed how it actually helps me be more recipient to what she is saying and also willing to change or look into whatever criticism about me is being conveyed as opposed to my dad who will just directly tell me the same thing and my first response will be the defensive haha

@PepsiColaP again thank you ive been much more able to swallow my pride since my surgery i was pretty level headed anyway but much calmee now my graduate degree attests to that

@hunkalove so... rarely then

@lumberjackslam Yeah, but I'm okay.

@hunkalove do men always get polite and shy when they DONT want u, in a way that you're absolutely not supposed to know they are heading 4 the door?

Seems like at such times they are exhibiting their BEST behavior. Kind of paradoxical though, no?
Maybe the going status of life itself..is very nicely OFF!

@wildbill83 thats how it should be

@wildbill83 willy wonka😘

@skybubble20 hmm

@Uniquesara because the other party can't handle it?

@Hanginginthere i can not stand to breakamyones heart

@Uniquesara it’s part of life sometimes though

@Prettybratbi1tch i dont feel good when sugarcoating things

@Hanginginthere i need to stop tbh I think it does more harm than good

@Prettybratbi1tch unless kids are involved yeah

@Camelia I feel it

@SW-User 😏

@Hanginginthere actually I tried to call her out here long ago and was savagely censured and "warned"

always the bad guy even when I was the ******

Thats our "moral" world for ya. Cowardice rulez and not much else.

@PleasurePunch situations like yours are exactly why I’m not likely to quickly trust people they need to earn it

@Hanginginthere No I didn't earn her trust I was lonely instead and went to visit her and 2 days later I was out about 850 and swamped with lying promises about how trusting I should be about getting paid back.
lol

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout big laff 🤣

@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout hmm 🤔

@exchrist though im tactful i dont disguise the truth.

@exchrist it should be like that more often

@Hanginginthere yes thank u im getting better at it since my brain tumor was finally removed. I even apolofized to an ex id wronged and told that person how to fix it themself. I got home after surgery yesterday.

@Hanginginthere Because they work for me, if they are not keeping me happy I tell them about it

@TexChik oooo tight fisted

@Hanginginthere I am always looking for the best price

@NoGamesTolerated i feel this

@Beautywithin what if hurting their feelings saved their life?

@Hanginginthere Very good Question, if it was only down to be to be brutally honest in a matter like that, then yes i would.

@pentacorn especially these days

@Hanginginthere word

@Adogslife hehe right between the eyes

@bijouxbroussard fair enough

@SW-User that’s good!

@Raaii that’s good!

@lumberjackslam y not

@Hanginginthere then I'm outta the will

@NativePortlander1970 😏 nice

@Magenta They don’t .. correct but I tell the truth. That’s just me tho