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Why are many men so egoistic and self-important! I am losing hope in existance of good men day by day.

4meAndyou · F
I checked your profile to see what country you are talking about. India. So I feel I am not too far off in saying it is a cultural thing.

You might need to communicate with men who did NOT grow up in India to find a man who was raised in a different way.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@4meAndyou i want a partner.... i feel sad that i am not able to find anyone good. i never been in long-term relationship....
DanielsASJ · 36-40, M
@sahi81 Money and physical attributes make a person egoistic. You can chose a man with out these two qualities and they won't have much ego.
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I don't think that it's a gender thing.This behaviour is becoming more and more common among both men and women these days(maybe social media is the reason?).Time will teach them to be humble.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@WomanThoughts i think egoistic people don't have good relationships... or have empty relationships even if stable
@sahi81 Exactly that's the point.Most of their relationships fumble over time unless their partners are submissive/patronizing.That is why I said,"Time will teach them".
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@WomanThoughts yes submissive ones do seem to bring stability for them but they seem bored,unsatisfied and chase something more and they don't seem to have any respect for their submissive partners.... They don't treat submissive ones good but they look calmer with submissive ones.
nedkelly · 61-69, M
In other words, why are you so offended by a male being confident, maybe your standards are way above every decent male. Look in the mirror and you may find the problem
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@nedkelly being self-important at others expense is not confidence !
ABCDEF7 · M
There are egoistic people in both gender. It's just that you feel that while interacting with the guys, because that is where the ego comes to play the role in your interaction.

I do meet men & women both with ego and without ego too. I would say most of my male friends don't have ego, in other words I only make like minded friends.
Teirdalin · 31-35
I think that's mostly human nature. Also hello again Sahi!
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@Teirdalin Hi, . Men in general seem to have an instinct to dominate others
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
Well, the problem is you have unrealistic and misguided expectations. Perhaps you are looking for someone who is afraid of his own shadow so you can get what you want, take out the competition so you don't have to compete, and create an unlevel playing field.

It is hard enough to figure out what girls/women want and how to navigate the social order without having even more restrictions placed on us as alpha males. Just be a "good woman" and the rest will fall into place. Is that too much to ask?
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@sahi81 Well, I'm the ultimate gentleman. I'm sophisticated. And, I am honest. I'm not sure you are really looking for honesty though. I suspect you are looking for someone to manipulate.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@MarkPaul i never cheated.... i am loyal. And also i don't trsut ur words, i see actions.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@sahi81 I suspect you don't understand relationships. It starts with words and your dismissal of words... my words... is a definite turn-off. You need to learn how to move forward instead of standing still surrounded with your grievances and personal drama.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Woman can be vain and feel they are superior to men, so you see we all have faults...
dale74 · M
Depends on where you're looking
Cloud7593 · 46-50, F
Yes and a lot of them only want sex.
Terminal · 26-30, M
They have abandoned God
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egoistic? ego? blue lock. this man is perfect for blue lock please send his info to ego jinpachi
hunkalove · 61-69, M
We can't all be John Olinger.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@hunkalove who is he? what he did
Selah ·
Hurry up and give up already
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