@summalovin I’ve read what you wrote, but I’m unclear as to whether you feel that seeking compliments from men is wrong in itself, or is it more about the way you sometimes seek that validation, in ways that you feel compromise your morals or self-respect? If you’re a straight woman, it makes sense that you’d want compliments from men, that’s a natural part of attraction.

@summalovin This is completely normal for someone your age still navigating adulting. The fact that you’re aware of yourself will make your journey smoother from here. You’re not doing anything outside the norm. If possible, talk to people you trust, like your mother, an older sibling, or a cousin, who really know you. Advice online often comes from people projecting their own experiences, which may not always apply to your life.

Take care

@AngelUnforgiven I may or may not have just sobbed, Thank you for this. You have no idea how much this means to me. I’ll take your advice!! I can’t thank you enough, you’ve changed my life to be fair

@summalovin anytime luv 🫂. You can do it!

@basilfawlty89 Thank you will do

@bioluminescent huh