I Want Someone to Talk Or Chat With

I'm always wanting that but after so many failed attempts for over a decade, I stopped trying.

I'm always the wrong chat buddy for anyone, regardless of who they are or what place they come from. The truth is I'm the problem, due to my lack of an interesting & successful life, also my personality that I'm sure almost no one likes and my personal issues that I can't tell because they aren't fun stuff and most people look for fun people to meet and chat with.

So, this is my so-called ultimate social approach. Writing posts on a social network (like this one) to no specific person, just leaving texts floating around the web. Sounds weird and crazy but my failed attempts led me to this. ;)

That's my personal experience.

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bluepedal · 46-50, M

I always regretted being so introverted when i was younger..choosing to rather stand in the safety of a group instead of going forward and talking to an individual, or , joining another group when on your own. One wonders if social media had been around then if it would have helped with meeting people and talking to people, or in fact, make me more introverted.

CatLady · 36-40, F

The same scenario i described here, also happened and happens to my out there, since I was just a preschool little girl. I became introvert and shy due to all the rejection and bullying I received everytime I tried to socialize, make friends, whatever. Then I realized it was me the problem, not them. When 99.9% of the people I knew did the same to me, then of course I was the problem. I simply never fit into any human group. Then as I became a teenager, Internet arrived and happened exacly the same online. I kept on failing, so I simply stopped forcing something isn't gonna happen, due to the person I am. And I finally accepted my place in life as a forever alone gal. I socialize but just like this, no conversations whether online or offline.

Invisible · 26-30, M

Yeah, I know what you mean. It's just really hard to force a conversation to happen, especially when you suck at it as much as I do 😅

If you needed to be successful and interesting in order to have a nice chat, then most people wouldn't say much. Actually, that sounds like a world that I'd like to live in 😂

CatLady · 36-40, F

Well, maybe the happy and succesful part come from my personal experience. I sort of had the bad luck to be surrounded by rich, popular, beautiful, hypersocial and snotty girls of those catholic and non-religious private schools I attended (thanks to my parents hard work and sacrifices to pay for them). Then the internet era started and what I've mostly found are all those social websites full of profiles where people always look for fun/very interesting/great personalities/intelligent/widely travelled pals to interact with, so my chances are 0. I think you now understand what I exactly meant. ;)

StayGold

Oh my goodness, I feel this on a personal level..

CatLady · 36-40, F

Sometimes I forget that maybe someone else in this world goes thru the same.

Panda97 · 26-30, T

You're always free to chat to me; I understand what you mean, as I think many have been in your situation.

CatLady · 36-40, F

Thank u very much! I'm always afraid to try again, because I know who I am, and I'm almost sure the other person would inmediately think "ugh"

MenzernaSF4000 · 36-40, M

I totally get you. Been there and done that. Know how you feels.

CatLady · 36-40, F

Thank you!:)

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