I Want Someone to Talk Or Chat With

I'm always wanting that but after so many failed attempts for over a decade, I stopped trying.

I'm always the wrong chat buddy for anyone, regardless of who they are or what place they come from. The truth is I'm the problem, due to my lack of an interesting & successful life, also my personality that I'm sure almost no one likes and my personal issues that I can't tell because they aren't fun stuff and most people look for fun people to meet and chat with.

So, this is my so-called ultimate social approach. Writing posts on a social network (like this one) to no specific person, just leaving texts floating around the web. Sounds weird and crazy but my failed attempts led me to this. ;)

That's my personal experience.

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bluepedal · 46-50, M

I always regretted being so introverted when i was younger..choosing to rather stand in the safety of a group instead of going forward and talking to an individual, or , joining another group when on your own. One wonders if social media had been around then if it would have helped with meeting people and talking to people, or in fact, make me more introverted.

CatLady · 41-45, F

The same scenario i described here, also happened and happens to my out there, since I was just a preschool little girl. I became introvert and shy due to all the rejection and bullying I received everytime I tried to socialize, make friends, whatever. Then I realized it was me the problem, not them. When 99.9% of the people I knew did the same to me, then of course I was the problem. I simply never fit into any human group. Then as I became a teenager, Internet arrived and happened exacly the same online. I kept on failing, so I simply stopped forcing something isn't gonna happen, due to the person I am. And I finally accepted my place in life as a forever alone gal. I socialize but just like this, no conversations whether online or offline.