I Want Someone to Talk Or Chat With

I'm always wanting that but after so many failed attempts for over a decade, I stopped trying.

I'm always the wrong chat buddy for anyone, regardless of who they are or what place they come from. The truth is I'm the problem, due to my lack of an interesting & successful life, also my personality that I'm sure almost no one likes and my personal issues that I can't tell because they aren't fun stuff and most people look for fun people to meet and chat with.

So, this is my so-called ultimate social approach. Writing posts on a social network (like this one) to no specific person, just leaving texts floating around the web. Sounds weird and crazy but my failed attempts led me to this. ;)

That's my personal experience.

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Invisible · 26-30, M

Yeah, I know what you mean. It's just really hard to force a conversation to happen, especially when you suck at it as much as I do 😅

If you needed to be successful and interesting in order to have a nice chat, then most people wouldn't say much. Actually, that sounds like a world that I'd like to live in 😂

CatLady · 41-45, F

Well, maybe the happy and succesful part come from my personal experience. I sort of had the bad luck to be surrounded by rich, popular, beautiful, hypersocial and snotty girls of those catholic and non-religious private schools I attended (thanks to my parents hard work and sacrifices to pay for them). Then the internet era started and what I've mostly found are all those social websites full of profiles where people always look for fun/very interesting/great personalities/intelligent/widely travelled pals to interact with, so my chances are 0. I think you now understand what I exactly meant. ;)