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Should I be concerned

My girlfriend is very social. She initiates giving her coworkers her instagram. She says she wants to build followers but also told me she doesn’t want to give her number so she gives her instagram.

I find it weird and annoying. Why give your instagram at all? Find followers another way am I right?
Teirdalin · 31-35
I find it weird and annoying that you find it weird and annoying
Denden · 22-25, M
@Teirdalin why is that?
Teirdalin · 31-35
@Denden seems like she's just advertising with her friends at work.
Denden · 22-25, M
@Teirdalin I will give her benefit of the doubt. Thank you.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
Seems legit to me. It's extremely common that coworkers have eachothers social media's.
Fluffybull · F
I imagine she's soon going to find your opinions weird and annoying......
Denden · 22-25, M
@Fluffybull this place makes y’all toxic and childish.
Fluffybull · F
@Denden Bye bye then 🙋😆
Jeez, are you an Andrew Tate fanboy or something? She's not flirting with other men and giving them her number. 🙄
Teirdalin · 31-35
@BritishFailedAesthetic I was wondering this too. xD
RoxClymer · 41-45, M
it's a way to be social without being too personal.

it's like those text apps, ppl txt a real phone number but it's not your real phone number, people can communicate with you through IG but not get your real, personal info, they are stalking you IG, you can just delete it,

it's harder to change phone number, address ect.
I’d say depends on the pics in her feed.

If she’s looking all hot and stuff in every pic, or is showing off her boobs or feet in most of them, that could be a red flag.

Now if her and her coworkers are also on onlyfans and she uses that as a tax write off, then she’s a smart businesswoman.
tallpowerhouseblonde · 31-35, F
If she is dressed daringly on Instagram it is a red flag.That leads to onlyfans.It can also mean your girlfriend is after some extra cock and does not want you to find out.
SnailTeeth · 36-40
So you'd rather a bunch of guys have her private phone number instead? That sounds more intimate.
Denden · 22-25, M
@SnailTeeth or simply have nothing?
SnailTeeth · 36-40
@Denden You're the one who asked. If I were her, I'd just leave you for trying to control me, and find someone smarter.
Yeah... I'd just give them all my phone number and see how you would like me having a phone that won't stop ringing.
Attention and validation. Nothing more. Nothing less
smileylovesgaming · 31-35, F
What is her Instagram name?
MasterLee · 56-60, M
She is looking
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
No, you are not.
So you want us to back you up on deciding how your girlfriend should manage her social life?

Maybe.....just maybe, decide what is important to you, and make a life decision about it, rather than asking strangers to support your ideas on changing your girlfriend.

Dont try to change other people to make your life better.
Change yourself.🙏
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
You told someone here that this place makes people "childish and toxic" ...except you are the one exhibiting toxicity.

Your girlfriend can invite her coworkers to follow her on instagram if she wants...there is nothing weird about it.

The weird thing is you here obsessing over it.

Is this jealousy? The need for controlling her?

Whatever it is, get over it.
I admit I don’t really understand the fad, but if someone wants to build followers without sharing a phone number, why not share the Instagram ? What would be another way ?

 
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