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The worst feeling [I Blocked]

I mean, I've definitely blocked people before but the worst feeling is being blocked... especially when you think everything's going great. I just got blocked by a friend on here, even though reading through our messages I thought we were getting along great... even both stayed up late at night talking to each other.

It's really upsetting :(
beth2020 · 18-21, F
I think sometimes they are not who they say they are. sometimes I bet some have a secret fantasy to talk to younger girls and some just get caught by a GF or BF and block you so you can't send em messages and them get in trouble.
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
Sounds true for some but not all 🌹@beth2020
girlunplugged · 18-21, F
It happened to me too. No idea why. Like you, upsetting at first but then I just told myself that this place is not really friends just passing acquaintances.
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Pretzel · 61-69, M
@girlunplugged yeah I was crushed the first time it happened - still don't like it all that much. in the final analysis I think they probably did me a favor
Even worse when they don't block you but just completely ignore you. You see there online but they never reply
But I definitely feel ya gal
Nighttalker · 56-60, M
@LollyPOPblue if that happens, then they weren’t who they were claiming to be in the first place. They probably thought you were close to figuring that out.
@LollyPOPblue no one on here replies hardly anymore anyway
IWasCallingYaLarry · 26-30, M
@LollyPOPblue I have a best friend on here who was gone for a while, then she came back and we were catching up and talking for a while almost like she never left for a while. And now for over a week, for whatever reason she's been ignoring me :( . Idk why.
SW-User
Maybe they realize that you're underage and since a lot of your groups are adult they don't want to take a chance on going to prison.
Or maybe they felt that a teenage girl wouldn't join so many weird fetish groups and think that you're actually an adult male 🤔...

Considering that you're only adding the youngest girls to your circle I'm thinking that the last thing is correct..
ElsaKaren · F
Sometimes i think their S.O. finds their secret account then creates havoc on it, by blocking their friends in it.
chrisCA · M
@ElsaKaren That person is not very bright for allowing anyone to access their account.
Subsumedpat · 36-40, M
@ElsaKaren Oh my that would be terrible. I don't tell anyone about my account.
AllycatAD · 26-30, F
I really don't care if you remove this or not,, your hounding me about my hormonal disorder creeped me out like you're gathering info to Role play it or something. A few years back when on Facebook, you went by Jessica Summers, same girl, *different pose) same location, same hobbies. I didn't like being stalked by you, maybe that's why some might of blocked you, I choose just to ignore you.
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
@AllycatAD it may be an idea to give people on here a WARNING about what she's done in the past
Hgingat · 18-21, F
I think if people block you they’re not really your friend so I never take it to heart.
Nobody00 · F
One more time I’m reassured that spending nights on “friends” here..especially here , is a big waste of time. Thankfully , i only get blocked here by enemies so no hurt feelings after that. Hugs
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
@Nobody00 Let your enemies take themselves out with the trash 🗑
@Nobody00 absolutely true haha
southbeachguy · 46-50, M
I think it is cowardly, I let anyone have a say with me that wants to yell at me. Just ignore the message, but to block them is chicken S. I have never blocked anyone but spam in my history of online chats for 25 years.
ElsaKaren · F
It is odd how that happens, I have had that also over the years. Maybe a SO catches them on here and does it? Who knows.
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
@ElsaKaren It’s so strange when they just disappear 😞
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
Maybe don't have "friends forever" expectations on strangers who you think you know because they only show you the sides they choose to show. You don't actually know anyone on here.

I myself block strangers when something happens, they say something that I can't compromise on. Something that I don't want to engage with or feel comfortable being friends with after hearing. Or they have acted a way that goes completely against my standard in the people I wanna engage with.

Whatever it is, I assure you, she had her right and her reasons and it doesn't make her fake, she set a boundary, however you not respecting it, and blaming her like this, makes it clear to her why she had to block you in the first place. You become the fake one. Who can't respect a no.
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People on here block for tons of reasons
Fa8393 · 41-45, M
Sw is a place we all escape to wither we accept this or not and there are alot of people that come on here that are not always very honest with who they are . Then there are some that just don't know how to express their own feelings and when they are called out they get upset .
Spidergrrr · 26-30, M
Yeah.But what hurts the most when the person you love the most blocks you.And tells you they hate you.After things fall apart after almost five years of dating.That and plus what happened has never made me feel so low and heartbroken
Torpedocat99 · 46-50, MVIP
So we have a friend in common if you would like to chat and may very well have similar interests. PM me if you like.😘 And getting blocked is rough when you have chatted with a person you think you have things in common with.
Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M
I totally agree with you. That's happened to me before but people on here are very sensitive. They'll block you just cause you don't agree with them
Michelle2be · 26-30
Sane thing happened to me yesterday...sorry i know this is an old post lol! But yeah it sucks, affected my entire mood
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
Same here! People here don't stay that's sad and people here are not real....they lie alot..
Few are real too
chuck7882 · 61-69, M
Stay here long enough and you'll realize getting blocked here is a badge of honor
ozgirl512 · 26-30, F
People can be funny at times...I wouldn't lose too much sleep over it, all part of life
LeaDhelani · 22-25, F
This is what I am saying, I am sick of fake people
coolnudist · 70-79, M
I feel for you, it has happened to me the same way.

I was talking with this person and in the middle of conversation bam there it was block.

I said oh well guess they didn't want to talk any more, they could have just said bye going to bed it's late. But no they blocked me!
Strongtea · 22-25, M
Yeah, it does hurt.
I know that feeling.
bluemachine · 31-35, M
Ive had it happen to
southbeachguy · 46-50, M
Just to mention I have met in person a few hundred people from online chatting. So if some of the 50,000 I may have some sort of chat with got offended at my perverted or goofy take on the world (It might be under what It should be that got offended or annoyed)
shrug and move on.
Nobody00 · F
Wow that sucks
hey what's up....how r u doing....jus I'd say hey and see how you're doing??..... how do you find this website... I'm so bored right now just got off work about 4 hours ago wide awake you cannot sleep....ugh
SW-User
Don't let it get to you. Though I don't want to dismiss your feelings.
It's about them, maybe they just need to disconnect. Happens a lot online... chatting can be addictive.
Rhodesianman · 56-60, M
Understandable it happens dont let it worry you .If they block you with no explanation their not worth wasting your time on just move on .
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
it happens. Unfortunately, there is no way to know who or why. The shame is tht if you offended someone, there is no way to say you are sorry.
Oneofthestormboys · 100+, M
I was blocked twice by the same person on here once. Made me not come on here for ages and filled me with self-doubt. It’s not nice I must agree.
conscienceforsale · 46-50, M
Getting ghosted is even worse. At least when you are blocked you have some idea what has happened. But when you are being ghosted, you have no idea what is going on
496sbc · 36-40, M
hell yeah its mad upsetting. but i dont do that stuff to ppl at all blocking is really not my thing. we could talk about what ever u want
DocHands · 51-55, M
Hi, I am very new here. This sounds like it happens a lot. Try not to take it personally. I am sorry it hurt your feelings.
KingGeorge · M
Have experienced the same. Getting blocked After having a good conversation is confusing.
coolnudist · 70-79, M
I know I have gotten block just chatting with someone and they blocked me!
Nobody00 · F
No wonder cool nudist @coolnudist
I have been the same. I think sometimes we get to close and that scares them off
@nevergiveup Yes, but why block? Why not just ignore?
wunderluv · 51-55, M
Hi. Speaking of blocked I can’t OM you because I sent 2 messages a long time ago. Could you message me?
wunderluv · 51-55, M
I've had that happen before. It sucks big time. These days it can be so hard to know the charactor of people
Philasefer · M
Sorry to hear that. I guess people here are not what they seem to be. It's that person's loss at the end of the day
Royrogers · 61-69, M
Awh don’t let it faze you. I was talking to someone who I thought I was a friends with and went crazy and abusive
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
Sorry you had to experience that . Some people are shallow and others get scared of their feelings and run away 😞
Most just stop talking to me and after i have sent them a number of replys with no reply back i just give up
Bklynbadboy12 · 31-35, M
It makes me laugh cause it shows you how unstable people really are when they block you for no reson
Uncfred · 61-69, M
We are all clips of our reality honey, coming and going like the passing of clouds.
Myself11 · 61-69, M
Well I wouldn’t consider her a friend if she got upset she should have told you why
Tonydang · M
Don’t worry to much it’s sometimes they really wanted things that you didn’t
I know the feeling.
Sometimes you have no idea why. At least they could tell you.

 
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